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In need of advice!!!
My boyfriend got a job offer but it is inAtlanta which means that we'll have to be in a long distance relationship... I dont feel like im ready to be in a long distance relationship because i know tht it wont end well... when he got the offer he didnt even ask for my opinion yet he says he wants to marry me someday... so my question is, is it worth it to be in a long distance relationship for 4 years or should we just be friends?
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My husband went long distant to work for 8 months and ended up sleeping with someone else,four years is a long time,i say no it dont work.
Nope! He made the decision without your imput. If he was all that concerned about you two ending up together, he would have at least asked for your take on it. Nope! 4 year long distance relationship is a no go. Move on and whether you remain friends or not, is debatable. My guess is no. Do not put your life on hold or you will regret it.
I want you to know this. Long distant relationships don't always end badly. How do I know this? Well it just so happens that I have been in one before. I also married that guy. Never say never.
Noo.. u can move with him. or tell him to stay with u... having a long distance is not really a good idea... & its 4 years.. dont give it up
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So, he is either so in love with you that he thinks you two can weather anything that comes your way or he is ambitious and his career really matters and he is willing to take his chances on the relationship working or not but still wants that job. I don't think either means he doesn't love you.
So I'd try it and see how it goes. There are never any guarentees whether he stayed or if he goes. good luck