Unprotected Oral To Someone I Love

[martin_91]

Hi there,
how can I say this. I fell in love with x-escort girl and we started to date few days ago but never had sex. I'm thinking of sleeping with her in the next few days, but to be honest I'm worried about her past life. I dont want to hurt her feelings by asking her to take a test so that's out of the qusetion at the time being. We will have protected sex tho, but what I want t ask is can we at least do unprotected oral (receiving from her) without worrying from any STDs? I've searched the forum and I found that stds transmission through oral is low, but how low is that?
and what are the risks of (giving) her oral?
in short, if you were in my shoes, would you have unprotected oral with her?

Thanks

[Life360_Dave]

the gel will not prevent contraction and you can get herpes without any cuts but with syphilis there would need to be an active chancre sore.

[martin_91]

sorry for asking another question, but where (my mouth?) and what type of herpes will I be getting will it be type 1 or 2?
Thanks again, Dave.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, we are not here to adivse sexual consent but will say the unprotected oral is a risk for Gono, syphilis and herpes. You giving her oral is very low risk and it would be for herpes and syphilis.

[martin_91]

thanks a lot for your answer Dave. I forgot to mention one thing, if i used antibacterial gel right after the encounter, will it be of any help since syphilis is bacteria? and to your answer, can I still get herpes or syphilis even if she doesn't have any soars or cuts?

[Life360_Dave]

most common is 1 but we cannot rule out 2. I would think and complete std testing would be best. Also my hats off to you by not judging her.