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Bottom on Prep, Top is not but fingered then to her myself!
Bottom is on prep and hes hiv and std neg he said he’s been on prep for almost a year. Bottom had unprotected sex with another top 7 weeks ago (be said top was neg) . At 6 weeks he tested hiv and std neg. Me current top is not on prep and I’m uncut. I Used lube to finger bottom, then insertive anal sex with condom and lube. Bottom was tight and couldn’t penetrate so fingered with left hand 3 fingers and lube. Eventually prnetrated, no breakage in condom, then lost erection pulled out while still wearing condom, and was masturbating with left hand condom was still on. As I got really close to climax pulled condom of with left hand and began to masturbate with left hand that had lube and had been inserted Into bottom. From the time I fingered to the time I touched my penis with same hand that had lube and most likely anal secretions it was about 2-3 min and I had rubbed my hand on bed, and his shirt, eventually climaxed and washed off. I went to gym immediately while at gym my foreskin was pulled back which is not nórmale for me and uncomfortable, I eventually fixed foresting to cover penis, and not until 2 hrs later when I went to **** I noticed that there was 2 little like blisters, ulcers, friction burn just below the penis head, not painful only if you pushed and rubbed. I’m freaking out because I’m thinking I caught STD or HIV from fingering bottom to touching myself. Bottom most likely didn’t lie about status but I’m still freaking out. Do I need any type of testing?
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you @auntiejessie I keep replaying it in my head and reading the comments here, just to clarify I did finger a guy anus, then touched my penis, there is no concern? I feel like possibly my post said I fingered a woman. But no it was a man
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Doesnt make a difference at all.
Copy that thank you. I’ll walk away now. I think it’s guilt at this point.
Guilt is fierce on the mental health aspect of it, but it doesn't mean it's a risk. :)
Guilt with anxiety is a human curse! As AJ says (ill get it right this time!) "Guilt doesnt equal risk".
Deal with the anxiety and the guilt will fade and so will the symptoms :)
Deal with the anxiety and the guilt will fade and so will the symptoms :)
So if I got this right you had sex using a condom yes? If thats the case NO risk of HIV, gonorrhoea or chlamydia. Even if you used the other persons "juices" to masturbate it is still no risk.
Slight risk of Syphilis and herpes but if the person ever had visible sores I wouldn't worry. The area would need to make contact outside the condom so the sores you have where the condom was is probably just friction. Give it a day and if it goes down I wouldnt worry.
Slight risk of Syphilis and herpes but if the person ever had visible sores I wouldn't worry. The area would need to make contact outside the condom so the sores you have where the condom was is probably just friction. Give it a day and if it goes down I wouldnt worry.
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Correct, condom was used, then pulled out, continued to wear condom and removed it seconds from climax, only concern is I touched my penis with the same hand I had fingered him before. Also the 2 red bumps have almost disappeared. So I’m just overthinking it at this point.
There's no risk from the fingering. STIs don't transmit that way - too much movement and time, air, wiping on the sheets, etc., involved.
You are definitely overthinking. :)
You are definitely overthinking. :)
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
