Worried

[Panickstation]

Hi all, I had unprotected vaginal and oral sex 4 months ago with a sex worker.t as the night went on the protection was taken away. I was worried from the off    I have a partner and found out she was pregnant shortly after. As you can imagine this has made my Mind work overtime. I had tests at 4 weeks for Hiv, syphillis, Gonorrhea and Chlamydia and tested negative for all of them. I then took a home testing kit for just HIV at 8 weeks which was also Negative. I started to develop some ulcers in the mouth and what appeares to be a whiter tongue than usual, and can at times feel tingly, very dry and chapped lips. So I decided at 13 weeks to have a final blood test for HIV and syphillis as its recommended for a 3 month test. This also came back negative.

I know it may still sound a little crazy but the thought of me passing on to my partner and child is really affecting me mentally and every time she has any pains I start to think of STD's.

I know I am clear of HIV and syphillis but could I of contracted any other STD through oral sex that has come up in a urine or blood sample.?

I feel I need closer on this bad episode of my
Life but I'm struggling to come to terms with being lucky and escape contracting any STD.

[TheeL51]

I'm right there with you. I had un protected sex outside of my relationship. It's turned my whole world upside down... and I probably don't even have an STD. Continue getting tested if you're that worried about it. Talk to a counselor or some friends.

I witnessed one of my best friends hook up with a girl in vegas at his bachelor party the week before he was married. I saw another friend hook up with a mutual friend and he's been married for four years with a kid on the way. Both of these guys seem very happy and still in good relationships years after the incidents. Neither guy told their significant other either.

I don't plan on telling my gf. But I do plan on seeing a counselor once I confirm no STD's are present.

[RNsexaddict]

PS don't have unprotected sex outside of your relationship

[RNsexaddict]

Sounds like guilt brother. I know that feeling. Get counseling, bottle it up, tell yourself you'll never do it again, or just come clean with your partner.