There is no STI that causes symptoms that quickly. The minimum is 2 days.
Tingly lips sounds like either anxiety or an allergy, and you aren't even sure you had a bump.
We are really bad at diagnosing swollen glands in ourselves - we all are, except maybe medical professionals.
Oral sex is considered much lower of a risk than unprotected vaginal or anal sex, and most experts don't think one act of it even warrants testing.
I'm not sure what it is you fear - STIs in general, or you're just an anxious person, or something else, but my guess is that this is anxiety/fear.