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Rubbing in pool

Hi, I have exposure I had a meeting today with a man I am also a man in the pool he rubbed his penis on my back and under the armpit There was no contact between my genitals Just touching our genitals with our hands only lasted for 20 seconds He rubbed the back and under the armpit What is the probability can get Sexual diseases and what if I had a wound in my back can I get hiv or hsk or syphilis or herpes?  
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Do you actually have a wound on your back?

There is no risk here. STDs are transmitted by unclothed oral to genital, genital to genital, and genital to anal contact, usually the kind associated with oral, vaginal or anal sex.

Backs and armpits do not get STDs, and unless you had significant friction and a decent wound, one could not enter the skin of the back or arm pit.

You have nothing to worry about here.
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Thank you, I see my back in the mirror , but I didn't see any cuts or wounds , but I could feel something like a burn in my back, And his penis was naked when he rubbed my back when I asked him he told me he didn't cum on my back ,I'm just paranoid to get STD.
You don't need to be paranoid, because there is no risk here. You don't have a cut on your back, so you have no risk. Even if he had ejaculated on your back, there was no risk.

None at all.
Really, there was no acne on my back, but I sometimes suffer from delicate acne. What is the probability of catching syphilis? I have a lot of acne on my back now, and I suspect that I have a syphilitic ulcer. Please help. I am 17 years old and I can't tell my parents I'm sorry to bother you I can't sleep
I understand that you are scared, and you are young, but you had absolutely no risk.

Listen to me here, okay?

To get syphilis, you need to have direct contact with a syphilis sore or rash. That needs to come into contact with your mouth or unclothed genitals. That did not happen. It didn't, and I understand you are anxious, but it didn't happen.

It's also too soon for a syphilis sore to appear anyway. This is just anxiety. I'm not sure if you are anxious because you had sexual activity, because of something else, or if anxiety is an issue for you generally, but you had NO RISK for any STD here.

Please talk to your parents about your anxiety. You don't have to say that it's about STDs, but tell them it's about health stuff, and that you're just always worried that you have diseases or something.

Young people have been through a lot with the pandemic - it's not unusual for you to have health anxiety now. Just talk to someone about it.
Thank you a word of thanks is not enough for you It is true that I shouldn't worry and should talk to my parents about my anxiety and thank you for your help and valuable advice .
You're welcome.

Just be well. :)
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