Good morning,
Thank you for providing this community and resource. I recently had unprotected sex with a friend of mine on 12/5. We have been fwb for years, but hadn't had sex in a while. We are both in our mid 30's. I'm male and she's female. She was tested for STD's from her gyno in 9/22 and 4/23, all negative. She had not had another sex partner since 5 weeks before that first test and she has never lied to me. Chlamydia and gonn were tested by urine. After sex I felt fine, but noticed an increase in urination frequency. This is usually stemming from coffee intake. I told her about this and she went to get tested again for assurance by her gyno. This was over a month after sex. All came back negative. I went to my PCP in February and they ran a urinalysis and found no issue, but I had peed within an hour before this sample. I was referred to a urologist, but have not had a chance to go yet. It was more the check my prostate, though bloodwork showed no problems with kidneys or prostate.
My urine stream is fine, but towards it the end it is much slower and dribbles. I kept looking inside my penis to see if there was anything and I think I aggravated it. I noticed a clear discharge after peeing and pooping, but it doesn't just ooze out constantly. Nothing noticeable on my underwear ever. I've read this is fine. I do have back pain (not unusual for me), sometimes penis tip irritation (especially after running), and pain down my left leg, thigh, foot, groin and butt which sometimes feels like testicle pain?
Am I freaking out too much? What are my real chances of having an STD if she has tested negative 3 separate times. I know you're going to tell me to get a test to confirm, but I'm just looking for piece of mind.
Thank You