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STD risk from BSDM encounter
Hi everyone.
I had an encounter with a BDSM practitioner. The encounter involved three acts:
1) I kissed the feet, buttocks and thighs of the Dominatrix.
2) Whilst wearing a thong, she sat on my face, and I kissed, rubbed and licked through the thong, which covered her genitals. This lasted a minute or two.
3) She used a dildo to penetrate my anus for about 10 mins. Half the time the dildo had a condom on it, and half the time it didn't. She said she had washed the dildo before useage.
We did not have any oral / penetrative sex during the session.
About 18 hours after the encounter, I noticed a tingling sensation around my lips. There are no obvious sores, but I am concerned that this could be Herpes.
My assumption was that these acts were low-risk, but I am now worried that I may have exposed myself to greater risk than I calculated.
Grateful for opinions / thoughts.
Thanks for your time
I had an encounter with a BDSM practitioner. The encounter involved three acts:
1) I kissed the feet, buttocks and thighs of the Dominatrix.
2) Whilst wearing a thong, she sat on my face, and I kissed, rubbed and licked through the thong, which covered her genitals. This lasted a minute or two.
3) She used a dildo to penetrate my anus for about 10 mins. Half the time the dildo had a condom on it, and half the time it didn't. She said she had washed the dildo before useage.
We did not have any oral / penetrative sex during the session.
About 18 hours after the encounter, I noticed a tingling sensation around my lips. There are no obvious sores, but I am concerned that this could be Herpes.
My assumption was that these acts were low-risk, but I am now worried that I may have exposed myself to greater risk than I calculated.
Grateful for opinions / thoughts.
Thanks for your time
So a bit of an update on this question. The itching / skin irritation around my lips spread over my cheeks and up the sides of my temples and over my scalp. Patches of skin have got red with irritation, and I have got a few spots around my temples and on my cheeks.
There are no signs of lessions, but I am obviously concerned that this could be Herpes, despite the reassuring comment above. Would HSV 2 potentially cause these kinds of symptoms?
There are no signs of lessions, but I am obviously concerned that this could be Herpes, despite the reassuring comment above. Would HSV 2 potentially cause these kinds of symptoms?
The only act of this list that could have exposed you to STDs is the dildo, but if it was washed before there is nothing to worry about. The rest of the actions didn't carry any risk. The sensation around your lips is not a STD symptom.
There is not even reason to test.
All the best.
There is not even reason to test.
All the best.
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Many thanks for your swift response. I really appreciate you taking the time.
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
