kissing and STDs and mono

[ciupsciupi]

Hello
1 week ago I met with a girl who is a normal person (she is not a CSW or  promiscuous) .
This girl did not have sex for 6 months and did not kiss a boy for 3 months .
I had protected (with condom) vaginal sex with her.No oral ,no anal.
Only french kissing was involved.
I recently found out through some blood tests that I was exposed sometimes in  the past (or recent past) to EBV.(ebstein barr virus).
I have 3 questions :
1. What is my risk to contract any STDs (except herpes) from this girl by french kissing her?
2. What is my risk to re-infect once again with EBV (if this girl has mono)?
3.What is my risk to develop mono ( acute infection with EBV ) ?

[mkh9]

1. Very unlikely to get an oral STD.
2. If you already had mono (Epstein Barr) you can infect others even if you don't have symptoms, but you would be immune yourself.

[licabulangica]

What about my first question ?
STDs from kissing?

[gracefromHHP]

by the time we reach 40, 90% of us has had ebv. it's incredibly common and most of us don't get ill enough from it when infected to even think twice about it. it's not a part of routine testing except for pregnancy.

no, you won't get ebv again, you already have it.

grace