Girlfriend (35) and I (41) had a threesome with a stripper 5 weeks ago. Unprotected oral on me, protected sex with stripper, no penetration with girlfriend. Girlfriend got jealous cause I wasnt supposed to have sex with her, but after we all fell asleep, she woke up and caught us doing it. We got in a big fight, but made up but its been rough.
Girlfriend and I had unprotected sex 4-5 days later and then she started her period. Her period was abnormal, lasting more than twice as long, bad cramps, heavy bleeding.
9 days after threesome, I had a semen like discharge in the morning when i woke up. Girlfriend had given me a vigorous handjob the night before so i just thought it was leftover.
With girlfriends period, we started to worry. One morning i milked a drop of white fluid from myself and we both decided to get tested. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Trich all negative... exactly two weeks after threesome.
Girlfriend started antibiotics for chest infection and started spotting. Doc said was probably the antibiotic and to stop taking it.
I have had no other discharge, but tip of my penis has been irritated, feels cold/tingly sometimes, and my pee smells burnt. Also started peeing a little, like dribbles in my sleep. Doc told me Im just feeling guilty for cheating on my girlfriend, her bad period was cause of the stress, doxacyclene could cause her spotting, i need to drink more water, and its all in my head but he's not the best doc just the cheapest.
Her doc wants to wait for her next period to see if its bad, but i dont want to sit on it cause ive read about PID and dont want her to get it.
I just dont get how me being stressed could cause all my symptoms, especially the ongoing irritation on the tip of my penis and when it almost seems to come and go.