please help me i have high anixety about this.... i am a male who has been treated for intra urthera hpv two years ago. married 19 yrs.. wife tested negative for all stds and never contracted hpv. i too tested negative for all other stds at that time. well about 6 weeks ago i met a male in a public restroom and started to give him a handjob and myself one with the same hand he had alot of precum on his penis. if i rub the top of his pensi then immediately rub the tip of my penis with his precum could i catch an std... i have frequent urination and a clear discharge from penis..