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Dont feel horny?
Well, my bf does different sexual things to me (...i have never had sex or orgasmed yet though...) ... im wet but i dont really FEEL horny. Why? someone please help.
Well tell you boyfriend 'No'. Don't worry I get wet aswell and I don't feel horny. Its your private that feels horny.
Well how do you feel about sex? Do you think it should only be done in marriage? Do you think it is dirty? Do you think you should be a certain age before having sex? Do you feel 100% comfortable with your boyfriend? Sometimes, we have subconscious thoughts about sex or other things that can interfere with the way our body or mind reacts. When your mind is all over the place you can't be in the moment. Try to block out all other thoughts and just think about the action that is going on. Really focus on what is happening. Don't let yourself be distracted by anything else and see how that goes.
I'm the same way. There are like 2 things he can do to turn me on and its taken 2 yrs to find them. I'm just accepted it tho. Bc I also can't orgasm from sex just oral sex.
well thats not it... im not nervous at all .. i can just sit there and be calm an do nothing when he does stuf to me. i dont get it.
Maybe you're too nervous. It's fine to be nervous. Talk to your bf about how you feel and see how that goes. Talk about what you like and don't like when it comes to sexual activities, though make sure to be careful. When you're comfortable with him, then you'll better be able to be horny.
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