Me and my husband have been together for almost 5 years. He was my first and only.
Sex has only been something that we have been very compatible with; however, recently, anytime we have sex, it is painful and I just cannot last. I don't have to be a genius to see it is upsetting him.
In the past, painful sex would occur every once and awhile. It seems, as time goes by, it only gets worse. The foreplay is perfectly fine. I even have a dildo and that feels fine. My husband is larger than the dildo, but not abnormally large. When he slips into me, it just hurts. It hurts more and more the longer we go and it reduces me to tears.
We use plenty of lube and don't do any weird positions...
I can't afford a trip to the doctor right now and I'm afraid that she'll make me go to specialists, which my Insurance doesn't cover.