I agree...Thank you both...A reason I haven't gone to a doctor yet was because one it doesn't hurt all the time but it does stay swollen but also because I have no health insurance anymore...But I will talk to my mom about going...Thank you again.
With the symptoms you describe I honestly can't believe you never thought of going to a see a doctor. Medical conditions cannot be correctly diagnosed by strangers on forums. You need a diagnosis and possible treatment. Follow John's advice get to a doctor ASAP.
You should visit a doctor for sure. The white discharge may point to Candida albicans. Or yeast infection. You can get it without an intercourse, just due to certain hormonal changes. But the condition should be treated and not left alone.
Visit a doctor as soon as possible he will know which tests to do and he will prescribe you the needed treatment.
Regards, John.