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So every time me and my husband have sex yeah it feels good, but not like it used to. I just don't feel interested in it any more.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Uddian Bandh (Navel lock) is part of kundalini yoga. It can help to normalize the urge for sex. Google Navel Lock or Udian Bandh.You may also research on anal breathing.It has several benefits.
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Thank you!
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Because of burden of house hold duties, and menopausal age, sexual drive is reduced. To revive sexual urge, one can do kegel exercises. This will strengthen pelvic floor and enhance flexibiity of vaginal musces . Another exercise to stimulate sexual urge, one can do female deer exercise. If there are no medical problems, these exercise will be quite useful if done regularly. Pleas Google these phrases and learn the technique and practice. Male partner can do kegel and male deer exercise.This will be useful to strngthen the bonds between the couple. Sex has multiple health benefits mental as well as physical at any age.  
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Lol yup here toooo!!
Especially in bed when im getting comfortable and i tell him to rub my back and its liken oh no he gets distracted lolol I guess its not bad because some hubby arnt attracted to thier wife
Im thankful mine still is but oh my Lord! ! Lol
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Yeah true. Lol. I don't know I mean this normally isn't an issue but here lately like if the word sex even gets brougt up I am like ugh no not again, lol. I am ten times bigger this pregnancy than my first and I feel so gross and ugly and huge and he gets in the mood just by be changing clothes. I am like really? Lol.
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He just gets me going and its like  ok i can say I sleep awesome after though.
Lol
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I'm like that, I think as well its hard to feel attractive and sexy when your the size of a beach whale , so that's  kind of a turn off x
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Thats how it is wit me so everytime he want to have sex I tell him it hurt an I kant I kno its wrong bt i jus dnt want to have sex
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Oh girl thats so me and my husband
Like its alright but being huge is so ugh
He gets turned on with every little thing I do and my drive is just completely shot.
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