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im a virgin but dont feel anything when masturbating?
Im 16 and have been masturbating using my clit for years and I orgasm within minutes but whenever I have tried fingering myself or any sort of actual in the vagina thing I don't feel anything? Its tight at the entrence and feels sort of good with one finger there but when I go deeper I cant feel both sides at the same time so its sort of wide... im really insecure and worried about this, im in love with a guy and I am kinda sexually confident, I mean I get wet and aroused and know exactly what to do to other people.. im really worried what this is about and I don't want to go to anyone and bring it up really because doctors are usually useless with these sorts of things and im scared if I do it will turn out bad... please help its destroying my confidence rn, I really want to have sex with my bf soon but its just this massive worry.
For your anxiety, you need to ask yourself do you get an orgasm or not, if yes, that is it, do not be worried anymore, you can and will enjoy the intimate moments when you go for them. For the lack of sensitivity, it may be due to neural construction or damage, better verify with a doctor.
But to enjoy pleasures of sexual nature the first point arousal, the wetness per say and the last point orgasm are vital.
But to enjoy pleasures of sexual nature the first point arousal, the wetness per say and the last point orgasm are vital.
thankyou haha, with my anxiety already im just totally freaking out about the whole thing, like if he gets no pleasure or if he goes soft or doesn't get turned on by me... I lack faith in myself and not knowing what to expect is making it a lil worse. But as you say im sure it will be fine, your hubby accepts you for who you are and if my guy loves me he should do the same.
Ah don't worry bout that hun. Look I'm not the loudest person but I've always been like that unless I'm drunk lil different Lol but when females are super loud most of the time there faking it n idk if u ever watched porn but u can def tell when someone is faking it. Just be u. N if ur not super loud it should big deal my hubby tells me he rather it b real moaning then to hear me just faking it. So I think u shouldn't worry bout it. :)
thanks, I guess im just more worried that the guy wont feel anything bc its my vagina and stuff but no, no one has actually fingered me only clit masturbation really, It just worries me bc people expect a lot in this day and age and I don't really want to fake anything or let somebody down sorta thing
When I'm having sex Yeah def can feel it Lol honestly it kinda hurts me for sum reason when I get fingered makes no sense to me bc sex doesn't hurt. Idk u could try looking it up but I've always been like virgin non virgin bc it's the only thing I don't. Like or can't feel. But I can feel everything else I personal don't find it a big deal bc there is alot of other things u can do. N Maybe bc ur doing it to ur self u can't feel has anyone else done it tp u? Maybe try it out see if it happens again
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One should not be shy about such intimate problems. One can easily approach a proper doctor and find out any prblem one has. There is no shame in consulting. consultants are used to see such cases and they give you proper guidance.If they rule out any malfunctioning they can correct it.
do you feel anything when you have full on sex? its just my friends have all said they can feel it when they do it and I cant so im wondering if it will be different if we have full on sex or because im a virgin and just haven't had sex yet that its not really feeling much?? x
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