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sex drive...

ok so i have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and nine months now every since we have been having sex i never orgasam and i have to fake it.i have always been attracted to him and i get turned on but i just never orgasm. I honestly dont think i have ever have. I dnt know whats wrong?
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You should visit KAMASUTRA website and can have excellent sex positions. I hope your sexual-life will be much better. Good luck and enjoy....
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definitely spice things up...and i know it may but uncomfortable but "dirty talk" can really work.
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Thank you so much. Yes we always do the same positions all the time we never spice it up a bit because we dont know what to try
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In order to turn on, you must get to relax both mentally
and physically.Now let me share with you the 4 key areas that one MUST stimulate first before you go for clitoris:

1) Neck. The neck is a very sensitive area. Many guys make the
mistake of kissing neck too lightly - will only get
tickled but not turned on. One should plant wet kisses firmly
onto her neck with so much passion that she can feel your love for
her.
2) Breasts. I think you should be very familiar with this area as it
is usually every man's favorite spot.
3) Abdomen. At this area, extreme licking is a big NO NO! as a transition between the top and bottom half of the body.
don't spend too much time here - apply some light kisses and move on
to the next exciting part...
4) Inner Thighs. This is the ideal place to go before you go for her
vulva. As it is extremely near to her vulva, the feeling of
licking this area will really make her wanting for your tongue on her
vulva more.
The trick here is to use your tongue techniques to warm her vulva up
first. Explore her vulva eagerly and completely with your warm, wet
tongue.
While stimulating her vulva, one can lick her vaginal opening in and
out as this will give your girl a great feeling. You can also use
your lips to create a soft, sucking sensation that will send chills
down her spine. Now, after you have spend some time warming up her
vulva, is time to go for her clitoris.

1) Sweeping. Position your tongue either on the right or
left hand side of your girl's clitoris, and move it from side to
side as if you are sweeping a floor. You can improvise this technique
by stroking it up and down instead of side to side.
2) Circles. This technique is extremely pleasurable for a girl
during cunnilingus.Position your tongue either on the left or right hand side of clitoris, and move it either in a clockwise or anti-clockwise
direction. Girl will feel excellent when she is already fairly
aroused as it gives the clitoris plenty of stimulation.
3) Suction. Now, take clitoris gently into mouth and lightly suck on it, as if you are drinking from a straw.

If you like all this I will give you some excellent positions to perform oral sex and intercourse.
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that would be great.
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Tell your boyfriend to get much engaged in foreplay before starting intercourse. You should guide him to perform Cunnilingus i.e. licking and sucking vagina with delicacy. If you want I can send very good and efficient manner and techniques for this and You will have multiple orgasms..
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