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hello am 21 yrs old.. am recently married... my problem is i dnt have any sexual desire... i dnt have feelings on my partner bt i love him sooooooooo much... i dnt knw y am ntgetting any mood... i tried bt no result found... my question is my partner said that if girls donot get feelings then ovum will not release and u vl not get pregnant... is dat true... he said that boys get feelings then sperm releases as the same girls get feelings then ovum eleases... is this true? can i have chances to become pregnant? can i concieve without feelings? plsss let me knoww....:(
my frnd is also facing with dis prblm she askd me bt i dnt knw am also havng da same prblm so pls clear my doubt...
my frnd is also facing with dis prblm she askd me bt i dnt knw am also havng da same prblm so pls clear my doubt...
Eggs will release with ovulation, and ovulation happens whether or not the woman is inspired by the sex she is having. The only time being uninspired affects the ability to get pregnant is if you are so uninspired that you simply don't have sex. But whether you are sexually excited or not, ovulation happens and the egg comes down. (After all, women who are in loveless marriages, and women who are raped, do still get pregnant and it is definitely not because they are happy about the sex.)
Anyway, your partner who says "if girls donot get feelings then ovum will not release" is repeating an old wive's tale. It has been used in the past to condemn women who were raped and shame them into keeping the baby. Please remove it from your present plate of concerns.
If you would like to know how to get more inspired to have sex with your husband, try some relaxation and wine before the sexual act, and ask him to go slowly. There are books on the subject of sex in marriage, as well.
Anyway, your partner who says "if girls donot get feelings then ovum will not release" is repeating an old wive's tale. It has been used in the past to condemn women who were raped and shame them into keeping the baby. Please remove it from your present plate of concerns.
If you would like to know how to get more inspired to have sex with your husband, try some relaxation and wine before the sexual act, and ask him to go slowly. There are books on the subject of sex in marriage, as well.
Hi Dee, do you know how your cycle works, day 1 being the first day after your period, then around 28 days later your period starts, so from day one till the end of your period is your cycle, now between day 14 and 21, is the time you have an egg released, or your body releases an egg, and this happends every month, But some body may come and put me right, now if your feeling low and out of salts as they say, get and see your doctor and have a blood test, could be your hormones low or your testosterone.
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