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1618333 tn?1298807739

should guys always come during masturbation?

should guys always come during masturbation? im 14 15 in two months and boy friends has never comed even though he masturbates, dont know how much, is this normal
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I think it's terrible that so many people want to jump to conclusions here, but young people need sound information.

When it comes to orgasm, there are few simple answers. Orgasm can be triggered by psychological effects as well as the obvious physical response. Plenty of people have difficulty reaching orgasm during masturbation. It is entirely possible that your boyfriend cannot orgasm during masturbation.

On the other hand, I don't know how old he is, but it is also possible he is not yet old enough to ejaculate. Unlike women, who have all of their eggs at birth, the male body begins producing sperm at puberty. Puberty is not set for everyone, some people go through it later. It is possible he is not yet producing sperm, eventhough he has orgasms.

It is important to note that once he does ejaculate there will definitely be sperm and sperm can lead to pregnancy.
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1618333 tn?1298807739
move on?
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You been advised. Move on.
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1618333 tn?1298807739
i dont think he's lying though
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80052 tn?1550343332
We believe you alright - it's the guys (any guys) that you are likely to meet, including the guy you are seeing right now that we don't believe, based on what you have said!  Relax, just trust yourself!!
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1618333 tn?1298807739
dont belive me then jeez al i was doing was askin for advice and u now suddly think i wanna have sex with him are u crazy i dont belive in sex befor marrige so stfu
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Yeah right. He is a guy. Anyways, wear condoms when you goes do it because that is where you goes are headed.
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1618333 tn?1298807739
huys wait up,hes not like that ive known him for over a year now and he fancied me for agesss befor we hooked up, weve been going out for alsmost 5 months now and weve gone no further than makin out ok
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80052 tn?1550343332
I agree with thehitman!  wait until you are mature enough to figure out the treachery of horny young men! the'll say and do practically anything to get your clothes off!!  Be wise and use your brain - you are smart asking questions here first and getting some answers from guys who have been there and tried all these tricks before!!
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I agree, guys think they are slick.  The next thing that will come out of his mouth is that he wants to do it, because he can not *** when he masturbates.  Don't fall into that crap. You are too young to be having sex.  Be smart and wait a LONG time before you do this.  Good luck.
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1618333 tn?1298807739
he told me so i guess that could be true
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Have you seen him masturbate or is he just telling you this? If he is just telling you this then
It just could be that he wants you to watch him or for you to do it to him.
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