vaginal cut

[march2011]

ok. so, 2 days ago, my boyfriend and i were fooling around. since i'm not ready to have sexual intercourse, we just did other sexual activities. he fingered me and he got really rough that there was a little bit of pain. after that, when i went to the bathroom, there was a substantial amount of reddish blood. since i am a virgin, i came to a conclusion that he broke my hymen. (is that conclusion correct?) well, i'm not bleeding anymore just some small spots i see in my underwear. today, when i checked in the mirror, i noticed i had a little cut that is located in the lip of my vagina. that is why it hurts when my pee gets contact with the cut. i'm really worried about it. will it heal itself? what is the remedy of it? and i really really don't want to see a gynecologist because if my parents will find out that my boyfriend and i are doing these kinds of stuffs, they will flip out.

please please, if anyone can help

[AmbassadorofAwesome69]

First, your conclusion is not correct.  Second, stop fooling around.  Third, he probably penetrated a little something with his fingers (assuming the guy didn't have a hangnail or anything) so just ease off the activity and enjoy being a teenager - I'm fairly guaranteeing that's what you are.

[thehitman357]

He probably cut you with his finger nail. Leave it alone and it should heal on its own. Just keep it clean.

[MrsPincince]

Hi:) Ur assumption on him breaking ur hymen could be correct. Rough sex or foreplay whether ur hymen is broken or not can cause vaginal bleeding. Ur cut sounds like it derived from u being dry. Next time try some lubrication like Ky Jelly. It will heal itself. Just be patient. For now u can try A&D ointment. Good luck!