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vaginal ripping

my partner and i make love around once or twice a week. he was my first and only and since day one when we started having sex i would get a painful and stinging feeling down below. i would get a mirror and there would be rips/cuts at the bottom on my vagina and at the top of my anus. my partner is a pretty good size but i dont think i should be ripping like i do and its extremely painful. whats happening and what can i do??
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139792 tn?1498585650
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http://dermnetnz.org/site-age-specific/fissured-fourchette.html
You need to consult gynecologist or urologist. The above website will give you a general idea of your problem.
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4851940 tn?1515694593
Make sure that you are well aroused and ready for your partner to enter you and also use a good lubricant on both of you.

Your partner will need to go easy so as not to tear you.  You could experiment with different positions so that he does not thrust so hard toward the anus, but more near to the clitoris.

May be a good idea to get checked out like Dalubaba suggests.

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