I agree with what you said.. who asked them... shes a young woman who asked for help... Not to get moan at and brain washed by people that have 'old fashioned' views... if she can provide love and support to a child then who cares about money etc... my parents wernt exactly rich... they got by etc.. and me and my brother turned out alright... :)
And thanks hun :) xx
You tell em ! Lol I know I am not very experienced but I agree with you and its her life. They said they were sick of trying to convince girls not to get pregnant but who asked them? She wanted help not.judgment or to be told what to do. And I am sorry about what happened to you.
I think Iboogie and remar need to shut the hell up... Its up to her if she wants a child at the age of 18... I fell pregnant at 17, but was forced to terminate it because my boyfriend at the time was abussive, trying to give me a m/c etc.. and even to this day...6/7 years on I regret it... I took a life when i was adamant that i would be the best mum ever but i let other people rule me!! and now im with a new partner and its taking us a while to concieve..
If i knew then what i know now.. there would be a 6 year old child I would be taking care of!!
so all i can say is go ahead with having a baby hun, if im honest, younger parents do better jobs as they are understanding etc..
Ask for advice in a public forum and you are not always going to get the answer you want. Because this is a public forum my mom and I are tired of having this same conversation over and over with 13-19 year olds because our tax dollars end up paying for these babies, but girls are convinced they're 'ready'. When you can afford to take care of yourself you can do anything you want. Education will take you places, typically not to message boards like this asking for advice on how to get pregnant. Sorry we aren't the cheering squad you hoped for.
I have patience im just sicks of hearing what you guys have to say.. im done with it.. like i said i wont have a kid. alright. bye..
You are this aggravated with a conversation about the responsibility of having kids? I question whether you think you have the patience for a screaming, crying baby right now? Read the comments my mom and I made again. We don't tell people not to have kids. We just suggest that your slow you roll for all of the reasons stated and think long and hard before you make THE biggest decision, one that will affect 3 lives.