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[LittleGirl18]

Im 18 years old with a beautiful home with my boyfriend, we been trying to get pregnant for almost 6 months now i been to a doctors but they said wait a little longer then come back, well i have really irregular periods they are all over the place they last for 5 to 6 days and 3 to 4 days and sometimes they are a full regular period that lasts up to 7 days and the time apart are like 22 days 24 days and 27 days to 33 days i have no idea when im suppose to ovulate please help.. thank you.

[AmyUK89]

Remar.. I can see what your saying and I know your asking these questions to *LittleGirl18* But I personally dont think whether they are going to marry is relevant as now a days not many couples are married who have children and the children are settled in a loving home... and also back in the day at the age of 18/19 you were married and having kids etc... so its no different now :-)

[remar]

You're so young being only 18. It's great that you and your boyfriend have your own place. Are you truly ready for a baby though? They are very expensive and take up all of your time. Can I ask if the two of you plan to get married? I believe a child needs both parents in it's life if at all possible. Sorry if it seems that I'm lecturing. I'm just old school and want what's best for every child.

[LittleGirl18]

Yeah i don't understand that.

[AmyUK89]

I was in exactly the same suituation.. I was smoking for 9 years.. and I gave up 6 weeks ago.. and my othe half still smokes, its fraustrating lol..

You could also track your temp and stuff like that (altho i nver do that cause i dont quite understand it lol)

[LittleGirl18]

Yes i smoke its really hard to quit cuz my boyfriend wont, we rarely drink im taking prenatal's my docs gave me. for the past month i havent been thinking about it.. but yeah..but also my periods dont come on time there always a day early or 2 days early.. im just so confused. lmfao

[AmyUK89]

If your from the UK.. the doctors want you to be trying for atleast 2 years before they refer you to the fertility clinic...

On an average cycle (which is 28days) you would ovulate 14 days of the first day of you period... Also the doctor would class you periods as regular, That is out mine are.. Mine are between days 27-37 and they say they are regular..

Try not to think about getting pregnant, if you smoke (give up - same rules apply for your boyfriend), and the same with alcohol, if you drink, make sure its minimum, caffeine is also bad for you.. take folic acid (or multivits etc.. eat the right foods, excersize)