First Time...Worried.

[Moogoo33]

Hey..
alright..so i dont know what my deal has been this year but i have been with a lot of guys...although i didnt have sex with anyone until a few weeks ago..I got my last period on July 20th and had sex on July 27, 28 and 29th. Granted that from the 27th to the 28th we started around 11 and carried over to midnight. But anyhow...i normally freak out about being pregnant and such even when i dont do anything, and now that my boyfriend and i have had sex im a little more worried. He had a condom on and didnt ejaculate in me or around me at all. After we were done i made sure that there were no holes in the condom by blowing into it...so like i mean i think i am fine..but there is still that part of me that is worried. I keep having to remind myself that okay...i shouldnt have been ovulating because i was on day 7,8, and 9 of my cycle. [by the way, i am NOT on birth control...i just count my periods very closely] We used a condom both times and i made sure nothing got out or in me and There was spermicide on the condom..and now i am around day 18 and i have been getting secretions so i must be ovulation now.
So, i am asking for a few opinions...there really isnt a chance here that i could be pregnant...right? or is there?
I just need help and advice...i am only 18 and yeah i know the drill of "If you dont know enough about it, dont do it." But, just to calm my worries i need some good help and advice..thank you so much!

[heatherlynn22]

congrats!

[Moogoo33]

Not Pregnant :]
thank you all so much for your help and support throughout that tough time..i truly appreciate it!

[Moogoo33]

I took a regular test today..a clearblue one and it came back negative..and im on day 36 of my cycle.

[Rosa20]

cheap preg test are just as reiable if not more then some if the more expensive ones! LOL ...They measure 25 of the hcg in your urine which is a very ssmall amount!! :) I think your fine ! Try not to worry!!

[Moogoo33]

i took a cheap preg test...it came back negative...but like idk how relieable it is..i would hope that it would be.

[mle11]

Hey I wouldn't worry so much if i were you. I know that I get worried too and stress alone totally delays your period. I've been delayed by two and half weeks before. Just be calm. If nothing comes after a month, I would get some hpt. Good luck!

[Moogoo33]

okay..thank you!!

what if he did ejaculate, but he pulled out and it was in the condom..and the condom didnt break or leak because nothing came out of it?

[kllmfae]

If he had a condom on and didn't ejaculate in you then I would definately say don't worry!

[heatherlynn22]

take a test or get blood work done. nobody can tell if you are or are not pregnant. you can not go based on symptoms. so many early pregnancy symptoms are the same as premenstrual symptoms. if i would go based off of symptoms i'd think i was pregnant every month.

[Moogoo33]

Hey there..
i am still somewhat worried here..I always keep track of my periods and i used an ovulation calculator to calculate when i will ovulate and it seems accurate. I had large secretions on the days that it said i would..but idk..do you think i am just paranoid here?

PLEASEEE HELP. :]

[Moogoo33]

But see, my periods have been very irregular this year..like ive gone from 37 all the way to 18 days. Its crazy..
but all in all, i am pretty sure i am fine..but thank you :]

[heatherlynn22]

any time you have sex there is always a chance you could get pregnant. you most likely arn't but just keep an eye on your period when/if it shows up. if it's normal and all that jazz no need to worry. if it is not normal or doesn't show up at all take an hpt.