i want

[mrsRonnieBoo]

i light way waana have a baby but my boo dont want a baby but he said that he would be happy if it just happen is it bad that i want a baby everybody around me is having a baby y cant i have on how can i make a baby

[mami1323]

So strange how my comments were deleted when I didn't even say anything wrong.  

[mama_triplets]

are you insane? what happens if you get pregnant with multiples? how are you going to take care of them? is the guy going to stay for sure? i agree with the earlier response you can spell how are you going to teach the child to spell or speak properly???

[Caddy1992]

thank you so much for you support means a lot

[Blackmetalrose]

Keep your head up hun :) Once you hold that little baby in your arms, every other trouble you are having will melt away. You have a good head on your shoulders, and it will work out, things have a way of doing so in the end.  I promise

[Blackmetalrose]

Wow.........    Kids try to grow up wayy to fast these days... It makes me sad...

[acissej44]

hmm. how can you raise a kid, and teach it to spell, if you can't?.

get a puppy or something.

[isthisnormal]

Haha, insane, illiterate little girls sure as heck make me laugh. It's amazing what you think you can say and not get HONEST opinions given to you. You're ridiculous.

[mami1323]

Of course it's cute when you go see your friends with their babies all dressed up in cute clothes and sweet and cuddly.  What you don't realize is they are running on maybe a few hours of sleep per night.  They deal with crying non-stop and trying to figure out why.  Struggling to have enough diapers and formula because frankly, I'm sure they aren't supporting themselves.  While all the teens their age with no kids are going out to parties or to the movies or the hang out, their home with their kids day in and day out.  That's their life, that child.  It's no longer about them, it's about that baby.  Most of them don't stay with their baby's father because babies add so much stress to the healthiest of relationships.  Then your baby grows up and you have a screaming, tantrum throwing toddler.  Who throws fits in public and puts up a struggle for the simplest of things.  You then have to worry about what school they will go to and of course expenses go up because they outgrow all their clothes and shoes in a matter of months.  You can't just decide to take a shower, you have to wait for someone to be there or drag the baby into the bathroom with you.  You can't just go to a movie, unless you have a babysitter and I'm sure your parents wouldn't appreciate being that to you all the time since they have their own lives to live.  Wanting one and being ready for one are two completely different things.  I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to open your eyes a little bit.

[Caddy1992]

i didnt say i wasnt happy i said i wish it just didnt happen at the point in my life maybe you need to read what everyone is saying and realize that you are being immature to even want a baby
and maybe if all your friends are having babies maybe the ARNT THE FRIENDS YOU SHOULD HAVE
stop replying in bold honestly makes you look even more immature you cant even handle our comments how are you going to handle a baby
maybe at school you should take a parneting class ... maybe it will open your EYES a little to realize that having a baby just because your friends all are
and what happeneds if you end up having twins ... do you see that list up there imagine buying double of that
and yes you would be on welfare at your age you cant pay for a baby with your part time job if you even have a job
and your parents raised you how happy do you think they would be raising your kid too
they want to move on in life not be held back by their immature daughter who got pregnant at 15
FYI im not holding my parents back and i graduate after this semester so im one of the lucky ones who got pregnant young so i can take care of my child and go to college so i can get a real job unlike your part time one because you had to drop out of school to raise your child and never ended up coming back AND YES THIS IS A REALITY CHECK how many of your friends who have kids are in school right now? did you think about that

[heatherlynn22]

b/c you just said you were. the only thing people are trying to tell you is that you just need to think about it. we're trying to help you realize what a tremendous responsibility a child is.

[mrsRonnieBoo]

HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE 2 SAY THIS I DO NOT WANT A BABY RIGHT NOW GOD THIS POST IS OLD

[mrsRonnieBoo]

NOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE 2 SAY IM NOT HAVING A BABY JUST LEAVE ME ALONE THIS POST IS OLD GOD

[heatherlynn22]

do not swear. that will not be tolerated on this forum. whether it's astericed out or not.

there is SO much you need to consider and think about before tricking your b/f into getting your pregnant. if he doesn't want to DO NOT MAKE HIM. he's at least doing the responsible thing by saying no. before you do trick him into getting you pregnant go out an price how much it would cost just to have enough for the first month of the babies life, go to an L&D department at a hospital and talk to the nurses, look through ads to see how much housing is going to cost you, your own health insurance (which if you're not going the welfare way costs between $300-$600/ month for a HEALTHY family.), car insurance, child care (b/c you are going to have to work and if the boy doesn't stick around you'll probably need 2 jobs.).

now here are some things for you to price. (and you can't go cheap on baby gear and you have to check recall lists to make sure what you bought is still good)

crib
bibs
diapers
wipe
baby bath tub
wash clothes
baby towels
baby lotion
diaper rash cream  (i prefer a&d ointment myself)
baby powder
baby bath wash
bath toys
toys (more than one or two...my kids play room is full of toys. we're constantly getting them things b/c they're always out growing their toys)
clothes (you should get a variety of sizes from newborn to 1-3 months, you don't know how fast baby will grow)
socks
booties
blankets
crib matress (no it does NOT come with the crib)
crib sheets
crib bedding
mobile
musical aquarium (those are a life saver at night. we've gone through 4, 2 for each of our boys, in the past 16 months)
stroller (ours was a very very very good stroller...cost us $450)
diaper bag
pump
bottles
bottle sanitizer
nipple
extra nipples
binkies
receiving blankets
carseat
some sort of bouncy seat (unless you plan on holding baby 24 hours a day)
baby swing (unless again you plan on holding baby 24 hours a day)
baby tooth brush (it's more of a little thing you put on your finger to clean baby's gums, which if you don't want their teeth to be messed up you do from the beginning. my boys have been having teeth and gums cleaned since the day they were born.)
formula (if you don't intend on breastfeeding OR if you can't. i planned on breastfeeding but i dried up by 3 months and had to go all formula)
changing table
dresser
baby hangers (for the nice clothes...you can't just fold them and put them in the dresser)
more bibs
onesies
hats
jacket
snowsuit
more clothes (baby's grow fast. i have 6 HUGE boxes full of clothes the boys outgrew)
baby food
baby juice
snacks (no not snacks adults eat...baby snacks)
baby spoons
high chair

eventually you'll need:
potty chair
sippy cups
toddler silver ware
toddler place settings

that's a majority of things you'll need. so go price that. and remember that list is bought over and over and over again as baby gets older with some things changing of course

[Sarah1013]

she gave you a good dose of reality. how about take all your defenses down and really read what she said. shes trying to HELP you.

[proud_mama_to_be]

Its your body and your baby. if you can afford the baby and can handle the responsiblity go for it. i did and im happy and cant wait for my twins to be born

[mrsRonnieBoo]

THANK U

[mrsRonnieBoo]

YOU DONT EVEN KNOW ME TO CALL ME A HORRIBLE PERSON. JUST CUZ U GOT PREGNANT AT 17 AND AINT HAPPY IS ON U CUZ U DONT NO ME AND IM NOT U AND MY BABY WILL NOT BE ON welfare SO U CAN GONE SOME WHERE WITH THAT IF I WANNA HAVE A BABY I WILL SO U CAN KISS MY *** WITH ALL THAT ****.ALSO IM NOT STUPID SO DONT TAKE YO MOOD SWINGS OUT ON ME THANK U.

[proud_mama_to_be]

Honestly I find nothing wrong with wanting and having one. Me and my friends did it. Im 5 months pregnant now with twins and Im psyched.

[Caddy1992]

honestly i think your to immature to have a baby
you want one just because everyone around you is having one isnt a good enough reason
do you honestly want to wreck  your life so young
think about no more parties no more drinking or just leaving your house whenever you want to
youll have a child you have to take care of 24/7 for 18 or so years
let alone do you have any money or will you be proud to be on welfare for the time being
do you think your kid wants to grow up knowning he/she is a welfare baby because mommy couldnt wait to have kids and suckered daddy into a life he isnt yet ready for
your a horrible person
im 17 and im 29 weeks pregnant and YES i absolutely wish this never happened to me because i have no money and it wrecked my 1 and a half year relationship with the man i once loved ...
not every pregnancy is prefect i realise that now
i have THE WOREST MOOD SWINGS ever and it drives everyone i love away from me
i stress so much about whether or not ill actually be a good parent or not that im worried im harming my child but i cant give it away because it would hurt to much for me because i have carried him inside me for too long
i was stupid just like you for wanting a baby so young
guess what ITS NOT WORTH IT !!!!!!!!!!!

[heatherlynn22]

being around people who have babies is not bad. wanting a baby is not bad...but it's not wise to try for one.

[mrsRonnieBoo]

AT THE TIME I POSTED THAT QUESTION I WANTED 2 NO IF IT WAS BAD THAT I BE AROUND ALOT OF PEOPLE WITH BABYS IS IT BAD THAT I WANTED A BABY

[heatherlynn22]

so...what's your question?

[mrsRonnieBoo]

IT CAN BE A LIL THING PEOPLE GO THUR LIKE IM AROUND A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE BABYS AND I BE THINKIN LIKE AWWW I WANT ONE AT THAT TIME BUT THEN I THINK ABOUT MY LIFE AND HOW I DONT NEED ONE

[heatherlynn22]

you JUST said you did want one.