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i light way waana have a baby but my boo dont want a baby but he said that he would be happy if it just happen is it bad that i want a baby everybody around me is having a baby y cant i have on how can i make a baby
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368785 tn?1270432283
Haha, insane, illiterate little girls sure as heck make me laugh. It's amazing what you think you can say and not get HONEST opinions given to you. You're ridiculous.
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145992 tn?1341345074
Of course it's cute when you go see your friends with their babies all dressed up in cute clothes and sweet and cuddly.  What you don't realize is they are running on maybe a few hours of sleep per night.  They deal with crying non-stop and trying to figure out why.  Struggling to have enough diapers and formula because frankly, I'm sure they aren't supporting themselves.  While all the teens their age with no kids are going out to parties or to the movies or the hang out, their home with their kids day in and day out.  That's their life, that child.  It's no longer about them, it's about that baby.  Most of them don't stay with their baby's father because babies add so much stress to the healthiest of relationships.  Then your baby grows up and you have a screaming, tantrum throwing toddler.  Who throws fits in public and puts up a struggle for the simplest of things.  You then have to worry about what school they will go to and of course expenses go up because they outgrow all their clothes and shoes in a matter of months.  You can't just decide to take a shower, you have to wait for someone to be there or drag the baby into the bathroom with you.  You can't just go to a movie, unless you have a babysitter and I'm sure your parents wouldn't appreciate being that to you all the time since they have their own lives to live.  Wanting one and being ready for one are two completely different things.  I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to open your eyes a little bit.
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1078034 tn?1351089685
i didnt say i wasnt happy i said i wish it just didnt happen at the point in my life maybe you need to read what everyone is saying and realize that you are being immature to even want a baby
and maybe if all your friends are having babies maybe the ARNT THE FRIENDS YOU SHOULD HAVE
stop replying in bold honestly makes you look even more immature you cant even handle our comments how are you going to handle a baby
maybe at school you should take a parneting class ... maybe it will open your EYES a little to realize that having a baby just because your friends all are
and what happeneds if you end up having twins ... do you see that list up there imagine buying double of that
and yes you would be on welfare at your age you cant pay for a baby with your part time job if you even have a job
and your parents raised you how happy do you think they would be raising your kid too
they want to move on in life not be held back by their immature daughter who got pregnant at 15
FYI im not holding my parents back and i graduate after this semester so im one of the lucky ones who got pregnant young so i can take care of my child and go to college so i can get a real job unlike your part time one because you had to drop out of school to raise your child and never ended up coming back AND YES THIS IS A REALITY CHECK how many of your friends who have kids are in school right now? did you think about that
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b/c you just said you were. the only thing people are trying to tell you is that you just need to think about it. we're trying to help you realize what a tremendous responsibility a child is.
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HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE 2 SAY THIS I DO NOT WANT A BABY RIGHT NOW GOD THIS POST IS OLD
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NOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE 2 SAY IM NOT HAVING A BABY JUST LEAVE ME ALONE THIS POST IS OLD GOD
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