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i light way waana have a baby but my boo dont want a baby but he said that he would be happy if it just happen is it bad that i want a baby everybody around me is having a baby y cant i have on how can i make a baby
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145992 tn?1341345074
Of course it's cute when you go see your friends with their babies all dressed up in cute clothes and sweet and cuddly.  What you don't realize is they are running on maybe a few hours of sleep per night.  They deal with crying non-stop and trying to figure out why.  Struggling to have enough diapers and formula because frankly, I'm sure they aren't supporting themselves.  While all the teens their age with no kids are going out to parties or to the movies or the hang out, their home with their kids day in and day out.  That's their life, that child.  It's no longer about them, it's about that baby.  Most of them don't stay with their baby's father because babies add so much stress to the healthiest of relationships.  Then your baby grows up and you have a screaming, tantrum throwing toddler.  Who throws fits in public and puts up a struggle for the simplest of things.  You then have to worry about what school they will go to and of course expenses go up because they outgrow all their clothes and shoes in a matter of months.  You can't just decide to take a shower, you have to wait for someone to be there or drag the baby into the bathroom with you.  You can't just go to a movie, unless you have a babysitter and I'm sure your parents wouldn't appreciate being that to you all the time since they have their own lives to live.  Wanting one and being ready for one are two completely different things.  I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to open your eyes a little bit.
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368785 tn?1270432283
Haha, insane, illiterate little girls sure as heck make me laugh. It's amazing what you think you can say and not get HONEST opinions given to you. You're ridiculous.
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1027524 tn?1259033777
hmm. how can you raise a kid, and teach it to spell, if you can't?.

get a puppy or something.
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669618 tn?1289403248
Wow.........    Kids try to grow up wayy to fast these days... It makes me sad...
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669618 tn?1289403248
Keep your head up hun :) Once you hold that little baby in your arms, every other trouble you are having will melt away. You have a good head on your shoulders, and it will work out, things have a way of doing so in the end.  I promise
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1078034 tn?1351089685
thank you so much for you support means a lot
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