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Im 6 weeks pregnant. I have a doctors appointment Feb 6. My boyfriend has two kids and is on child support for both. He really wants me to get an abortion. But I lost my first child Aug 28. He was stillborn. Today I scheduled for an abortion and that appointment is Feb 5. Since I will be 9 weeks it will cost me 550. My insurance doesnt cover it, and I didnt qualify for the assistance. I've been crying all day. I really dont want to get an abortion. I don't know what to do.
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If u don't wanna get an abortion, then don't. He needs to man up and take responsibility. He can't force u to get one. If I were in ur shoes, I'd tell him to screw off and leave his ***. NEVER would I ever get an abortion to stay with a man. I hope u don't go through with it. :-(
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Its your choice but if i were you i wouldnt do it.  give him or her a chance to live you know how it feels to lose a baby think of this new baby as another chance your getting at being a mom if your boyfriend doesnt want the baby leave him is his lost there are places that help single moms.. ADOPTION is another option that you have trust me you will regret it if you do it.. a man that makes you get an abortion knowing is not what you want is not worth it or loves you i had a stillborn baby it took me over 7 years to get pregnant again i thought it would never happen you are lucky that it you got pregnant fast.. I KNOW PEOPLE WHO NEVER GOT PREGNANT AFTER HAVING AN ABORTION PLEASE THINK ABOUT IT. I REALLY HOPE YOU GIVE YOUR BABY A CHANCE..
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Do what you think is best for you. None of us will be there to help you raise your child. Just know that it's up to you beautiful don't be ashamed to follow your heart. But remember a baby is a blessing.
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My bf wanted me to get one and i refused
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This is similar to something that happened to me. I also had a still boren last year. It was the worst thing i have been through my entire life couple of months later me and my bf separated and latee i found out i was expecting another baby of his. He suggested i get abortion, and i was difficult for me to not consider it since i didn't want to risk going through another tragedy. But i knew god was watching over me and i could not purposely take my babies life away it was not in me and now im 29 weeks my ex and i didn't speak for a while after that. Now he wants to be a father to this baby and is concerned with everything that i do and want to do with the baby. I know women get abortions for many reasons but do not do it for some guy. Men there are many but your kids are not replaceable.
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I wouldn't advise anyone to get an abortion.. Year before I had an abortion and it was the worst thing I ever did..actually seeing a little life u ended...I was so depressed for weeks it was horrible..now I'm 24 weeks pregnant again and im so happy I kept my baby this time.. Girl keep ur baby..it's you that will live with the guilt and everything...to hell with your man
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