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abortion?

Im 6 weeks pregnant. I have a doctors appointment Feb 6. My boyfriend has two kids and is on child support for both. He really wants me to get an abortion. But I lost my first child Aug 28. He was stillborn. Today I scheduled for an abortion and that appointment is Feb 5. Since I will be 9 weeks it will cost me 550. My insurance doesnt cover it, and I didnt qualify for the assistance. I've been crying all day. I really dont want to get an abortion. I don't know what to do.
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I think in your heart you already know your decision.   Follow YOUR heart not a boyfriend's wishes.  Best wishes.
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I understand where your coming from. If you really don't want to it please don't! You will live with regret forever. Try to breathe and calm down. You don't have to make this decision today or tomorrow. I know your mans opinion is going to impact you but try to think about just yourself in this case. Babies are expensive but it is possible I promise you. Hang in there hun
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9754532 tn?1420779073
If its not what u want dont do it. I was forced (munipulated)  into an abortian by my ex partner when i was 16 it was the worst day of my life =( i will never forget it or forgive myself for it. I really didnt want to abort and i wish i could go back to that day and stand up for myself. Please dont make a choice u dont want to cause u will think about it ur whole life what if or why did i. Goodluck
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7963483 tn?1406809424
Here let me tell you from experience.
I had an abortion in 2012 I didn't want to have it but my mom made me do it. I promise I was depressed that whole year I also couldn't tell anyone because I didn't want to get judged. But up to this day it still bothers me because I wonder what the sex of the baby was. Now there was a flip side I was able to finish school and have a great job. But that doesn't cover up a death of an innocent child. There is a lot of help for pregnant women you just have to look for it. You can RAISE a child on your own. Your not the first or the last.
I really hope this helped. If you ever need to talk we are all here for you
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An abortion is not a form of birth control if kids were not wanted then protection should have been used don't kill the child that had no say in being conceived give the baby up for adoption there are too many women that want babies and can't have them
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10298511 tn?1414504869
If you don't want to get rid of the baby then don't.  If he can't respect that then you gotta reassess who he cares about.  Good luck. :)
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