abortion?

[TroiTroi]

Im 6 weeks pregnant. I have a doctors appointment Feb 6. My boyfriend has two kids and is on child support for both. He really wants me to get an abortion. But I lost my first child Aug 28. He was stillborn. Today I scheduled for an abortion and that appointment is Feb 5. Since I will be 9 weeks it will cost me 550. My insurance doesnt cover it, and I didnt qualify for the assistance. I've been crying all day. I really dont want to get an abortion. I don't know what to do.

[Timberlynne92]

If you don't think you can afford the baby or don't want it, you can always always always go with adoption, closed or open, it's your choice in the end but think about it really hard before you make a decision

[Hbate1129]

If you don't want an abortion then don't get one! You will always wonder what could have been if you go thru with it just because the father doesn't want another baby! Don't make the decision based on a "man" do get your heart tells you!!

[Sian_Evs]

If you don't want to get an abortion then don't, I'm a firm believer of everything happens for a reason. Your boyfriend can't make you have one. I'm sure everything will turn out okay :)

[Emalee132]

Follow your heart. You can always take care of a child yourself and not file child support. It's your child too and I think you have a say in the decision. I think if you believe you can be strong and have the child do that! Or adoption is an option too! But follow your heart mammma! So you don't do anything you'll regret in the future

[Kokospuff]

You're the one carrying the child. You're the one going to have to live with the guilt/sorrow if you do it and don't want to. This is the WOMANS choice. If he's not man enough to have another kid then he shouldn't be having unprotected sex like that. I'm here for you. You need to really talk to him about this and let him know how you feel. I wish you the best of luck. Please don't go through with it if you don't want to.