Strange swollen cuts in vagina that are very sore

[angelache]

There are cuts in and around my vagina entrance were somewhat painful. Then later I started having an excessive amount of white watery and milky discharge, that gets everywhere in my vagina and i think has made the cuts swollen and very painful. i'm not sure if these are sores or canker sores. Another weird thing is that everyday its like another cut comes. This started 3 days ago and ther are probably 8 cuts. The cuts start out very smal and then seem to get bigger. The small cut that is farther away from my opening and not getting touched by the discharge has gotten swollen but is painful. it is almost like a paper cut. It is so painful, that I can't walk and even sitting hurts. I had sex approximately 3 days before this started. Everytime me and my boyfriend have sex it is always very painful when he first enters.I thought it was because his penis was too big for me, but I'm not sure if that is relevant. I am 17 years old and want to go to the gynocologists, but then i'll have to tell my mom and she thinks I'm still a virgin.I can't tell her either because she is very religous(christian) and pre-marital sex is forbidden. it would break her heart. i'm also afraid that if i telll the gyno he will tell my mom i'm not a virgin too. I did have unprotected sex, but my boyfriend pulled out before he cummed. Before all the cuts came I was very itchy down there and had fishy smelling discharge, but that had stopped. The cuts don't bleed, but you can see that it is open and they are very red and very painful. i have done some reasearch on the internet and i think it is bacterial vaginotis and canker sores? i am really afraid that it could be herpes, but my symptoms don't completely match the symptoms of herpes. Does anyone have any idea of what is happening to me? Please help with any i

[2thick4u]

my boyfriend is 47yrs old i have been dating him off and on for 5yrs now were a couple again this time this is the man i want to marry but he has a sex problem and i don't know if i should make that move the first time we had sex he ejaculated in 3 minutes now every time we have sex we go on for 5 to 6 hours and he still haven't ejaculated he says its not me its him but i don't believe that he says i make him feel real good if thats so why can't he *** for me after hours of sexs he wants to masturbated while i watch what a turn off im ready to give up .

[Jess0001]

It could be from friction from having rough sex a condom; but it doesn't sound like you are in a relationship with this man and since the condom broke I advise you to get tested for STD's right away.

[yahoo910]

i recently had sex with this guy i mean, we use a condom, but while we were having sex it got a little rough and we fell off the bed..and the condom broke...my vagina has been sore from the rough play, but in the inner part, not by the hole, there is a sore spot, could it be a cut?

[iloveranger88]

I agree with RRMom--a county clinic or a family planning clinic is the way to go--you can fill out insurance forms and ask to keep all information private and they have to respect your wishes. Sex may hurt (other than him being large) is because there is not enough lubrication. Try buying some water-based lube for that. And you can get pregnant and get STD's ffrom pre-***, which leaks out of the penis during sex before ejaculation. Good luck!

[RRMom]

I would definitely go to the doctor and have it checked out.  The sooner you know what is going on the sooner you can treat it.  If you wait you could actually make it worse.  You can go to the family planning clinic without a parent.  They will keep it private and are pretty reasonable with pricing.  You might want to let your BF know what is going on as well.  If it is something, he may have it as well and might spread it to someone else.  Hope you feel better soon!!