Large female pubic bone.

[Anne1971]

This was a comment I found and I HAVE EXACTLY THE SAME THING! I need to know how I can correct this! You have no idea the suffering we go through on a day to day basis looking like you have a male part instead of a female anatomy. I don't feel like a complete woman. I cannot wear sexy underwear and don't get me started on what wearing a swimsuit feels like or anything that's tight, so I'm always wearing things that are baggy and I'm soooooooooooooo tired of it. My Gynecologist says it normal, WHAT????????????!!!!!!!!! It's not normal for a female to have a LARGE bone sticking out! Believe me, you would not want to be me....
There has to be a surgical proceedure to reduce the bone there, so we can feel like women again.
See below...




when i started discovering my body as a young girl, i realized something different from everyone elses. my vagina looks really bony. when i lay down flat, my pelvic bone is protruding out. even standing up, i can see a big bump. more than normal from what i have seen. i have been told by friends "oh you have big vagina" and it really bothers me. i am embarrassed to be intimate. i did research but didnt come across anything. i'm 25 now and am still embarrassed to go to a doctor. i dont know what the problem really is. i used to crack my lower back, i dont know if that would do anything to it? but i dont feel any pain or anything. just physically, its very different, bony, and embarrassing from what i see. i've been told by several family members " are you wearing a pad" because its that noticeable. i know that if it was from birth, my mom would notice. because now they tell me things like you have fat, big, vagina. i really need to do something about it, but need to know what? and need to know what the problem really is and what may have caused it? and what kind of doctor i should see. and how i should explain it. please answer my questions asap. i cant take it anymore, and i find it embarrassing to share it w/ anyone else.

[Vballeng]

You can get liposuction on your vagina if you want to look into that :)

[Gfrias]

This would work if she just had a more than usual amount of fat there. It sounds like the problem is the bone protruding, which I think a plastic surgeon could shave down.  Lipo would only attack the fat.

[67catlover]

I've had back problems and been to the chiropractor frequently. My hips are tilted because of my back problems, so the bottom is farther forward than it seems it should be, so I also have this problem. I would go to themx get an adjustment, and get exercises or stretches to help keep everything in alignment. That's probably what it is. If you like pop your butt out does it go away? Probably. Your hips are probably just tilted and some stretches and exercises will help you keep it where it should be :)

[aos123]

There is no fat on the bone, and it is just bone. I've noticed this since i was about 7 and my mum even took me to the doctor about it when i was 5. They said you cant do anything about it. IT IS NOT NORMAL FOR A BONE TO STICK OUT AN INCH OUT OF MY BODY. I'm 14 now and i have no body confidence (I'm pale with around 200 moles and freckles on my body, and you can see it through everything. Its even worse at school as we have to wear really tight skirts, and the PE shorts are so tight you can see it. You can even see it through non skinny jeans and flowy pattered trousers. Surely there is some treatment (like braces or spine curvature) to push down on it and change the bone shape gradually? I cant go to friends beach parties without having a breakdown of tears if anyone says anything about it. I have only found one bikini that actually disguises my mound. Luckily it was only £6 so i have literally bought 20 of them. CAN SOMEONE HELP I CANT LIVE MY LIFE LIKE THIS

[Gfrias]

Why don't you see a plastic surgeon (most consultations are free) and see what options they give you?

[Heartpwr]

I meant to type NOT let it hold you back in any way!   My post was full of typing errors, but I just had to clear that one up!!  

[Heartpwr]

My dearest ladies PLEASE PLEASE read this.  I wish someone had said this to me years ago.  It would have saved me from so many years of emberassment.  I am now 39, but as you know, we were born with our protruding pelvic bones.  So have you noticed that the boys who had negative comments were barely 20 or younger??  The girls and women, however, are of all ages.  I own several superstores in the U.S. and statistics show that 75% of all shopping(even for men) is done by women.  I also see this for my own self.  So, as we are in the majority, other women think, like we do that it is a problem and something different.  So, they either have a negative comment or they feel sorry for us and say something, however well meaning, about loving our bodies or someone who really loves us will accept our differences.  In short, as a cumulative group, the majority of women don't so they do think it is bad or sad.  Now it's time to get real.  As it is true that someone who loves us should accept us for our differences, this isn't something that is a thing to "accept."  I found, in my life, that he's, MOST men LOVE LOVE IT!!  I know that the scars of the young boys saying things are hard to let go.  But you know that in those junior high and high school years, they are not as experienced as they say and all insecure teens as a whole will find something to make someone feel this way about.  It just so happens that we already hate this part of us.  Girls/woman know it's different, thus bad.  Advertising is full of flat women because that is what WOMEN want to see and that is what THEY THINK men want to see.  This is such a terrible thing for us to take as we are already uncomfortable.  I was with two men for long beautiful relationships.  i was with a few other men and that is it sexually.  HOWEVER, these two men were so VERY attractive and I will just put this out there. They both had very large man parts, sexy tight abs, and LOVED LOVED MY FUPA(fat upper p$&sy area)!!!!!  I asked them about it, and throughout my first relationship) I would tell him that I wanted to shave it off and he would plead for me not to have any surger, that it was rare and exotic and sexy as hell.  I was reluctant to believe it.  He even said that it was like a "landing pad."  That the way my bone protruded, is where his body went in and it felt so SO good!  My secon long relationship, I was a little reluctant, still knowing I had not been with many men.  I shared this with him within the first year together.  He said that he completely agreed.  He knew that we had the mo sy to easily change this.  Well, after reading this, maybe not so easy.  However we were sure of it at the time.  He said no No also.  He loved it and said that info was correct and that all men really love it.  These men were so sexy on every level and could be with whatever kind of woman they wished.  They both chose me and I chose them.  I stayed best friends with the first and after 12 years, the second tragically was killed in a accident.  I am only Sharimg something so personal because I know that there may be some girls wondering if this is why the relationships didn't last.  No and the first, I broke up with because of something different, but as I said we remained besties.  I have always had more boy friends than girls, and began to ask them.  They all, each and every one, without missing a beat, said , in their own unique ways, that I am one of the luckiest girls to be blessed with this!!!!  Please know that this is not a feel good post filled with some bs trying to make you feel better.  NO!  It SHOULD make you feel better because, even though I KNOW this is hard to believe, you REALLY DO have a unique and special feature.  Other women will NEVER understand this fully.  So do not go to them with this one thing.  This is not mean about women.  I want women to be strong and confident and support one another.  This is all just the straight up truth.  Just as the men, who know first hand, have posted on this thread, have so truthfully said, they really really do love it.  Also being confident is sexy as you know.  So yes, possibly wear a tight swim skirt and show of the girls.  Every body has something g different that looks better or worse in clothing.  It's not that you are hiding it, but the bathing suits leave you too vulnerable to ignorant(not stupid) women.  Besides that, then PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT BE ASHAMED.  Take a leap of faith and even if you don't believe me(because obviously you don't know me), at least wait until after high school and ask an at least somewhat experienced man close enough to give you their opinion.  I promise, as long as they themselves are confident, they will give you an answer that will blow you away.  And when you have that special man, he will know that he, besides having you to love, will know that he has a bonus treasure with you that not so many women have.  All of this is 100% true ladies.  What you think is a curse, is actually a gift.  Sending you love and the hope that you will recognize your gift and. It let it hold you back from life in ANY WAY!!!!

[risajames09]

i have the same problem, i thought i was alone with this.  i really can't stand it,cant wear tight skirt and crop-tops is not even close. i am 22 and im really into fashion and this hurts bad. at the beach its freaking annoying, ppl might think im a guy. the worst is idk how any guy i go out with will react to this,so stressing :( ive had sex with only 1 guy and he never mentioned anything,so i guess he was ok with it. but i remember kissing one of my exes and our body were close,he felt my bone,he asked me if i was on my period,if it is a pad,and i said yes, i was 13. since that day ive always been consious about it. anyway,dnt think anything can be done about this., if any of u have a way to wear tight clothes without a long top,please let me know..good luck to yall