im 18 and a little over two days ago my boyfriend and i were taking a shower and fooling around. i told him to stop for a second and when i looked down i had a huge buldge on my left labia. i was so scared i started crying because i dont no what happened. it is so swollen and black and blue only on the left and only on the labia major. we werent using a condom so its not an allergic reaction. it is veryy big and swollen still and is a little unconfortable when i walk. ive tryed to put a cold compress on it to get the swelling down but that doesnt seem to help. i would like to try and avoid the doctor if i could. if anyone knows what this is or how i can get it to go away it would be greatly appreciated. pleaseeeee help me!