Hello there,
You need to tell your girlfriend she should make an appointment with her
family doctor. There is always the risk of infection. As to whether you should
break her hymen completely, I wouldn't. This could be dangerous. Take it
easy and not rough next time. You should see a doctor..
As of now, the bleeding is very minimal and the pain is slowly going away. Do you think it's okay if we let it heal? She really doesn't want to go cause we still don't have money for a check up. I told her we should abstain first though
Hello again,
You say the bleeding is very minimal. But you admit there is still bleeding.
No, I don't think it's okay to just leave it. Your girlfriend should have medical attention to make sure everything is okay. You say you don't have
money for a check up. I think I remember you and your girlfriend live in
the US. Surely, there must be something like a free clinic perhaps.
She needs to be looked at to make sure she's okay and that means medical attention. Fingering needs to be done gently, never roughly.
A woman's genital area is very sensitive and delicate. Yes, you should
abstain for awhile, but your girlfriend should still be seen by a doctor
to make sure she's okay, that there is no damage etc.
Although the blood is minimal but you should care for her. I agree with the above answer there should be some free hospital in usa.