i dont know if im a virgin anymore. help please.

[Jaabel]

i had make out to a guy and then it turns out of taking clothes off. im a virgin and im bleeding that time... first he just tease me by his penis up in down outside then suddenly he put the head on d entrance and it quite hurt and i told him im not ready so he stop. just d head... then he finger me slowly then harder.. it hurts but pleasurable... then after that when we talk he said that im not a virgin coz he said im just tight. thats all.. im embarassed ... im a virgin. when d head of the penis is in the entrance does it lose ur virginity? coz i dont know im bleeding thats y i cant see if i bleed because of what he did ... and it hurts a lil. i can compare the hurt when i insert my finger when i masturbate..i just  dot it twice. please lighten up my mind. thanks

[90sbaby_]

Lol. If orgasm has something to do with it I'm not a virgin. And I've had sex. Lol.

[lorenabellavita]

Virginity is something that only you can define. However , if you bled he tore your hymen. You decide whether that takes your virginity or not. It all depends on your values. In my opinion that was sex. And if virginity is not having sex then yes you are no longer a virgin.n

[LovesHerSoldier]

Orgasm has nothing to do with it

[alley_kat]

A virgin is someone who has not had sexual intercourse " meaning a penis inserted in the vagina followed by an orgasim"

[LovesHerSoldier]

You're not a virgin, even if it was only the head of the penis. It's not exactly accurate to rely on weather you have a torn Hymenoptera or not. The hymen can be torn a tiny bit by a finger or very torn with intercourse. Girls have also torn it by riding a bike or a horse. Virgin means "pure" or that you have never had a willy in your vagina. Hope this clears things up honey

[Jaabel]

he didnt put his penis inside. its liks he puts his head on the entrance...and i have period thats why i can distinguished if its blood for my torn virginity.

Fist of all did he penetrate(insert his penis)inside your vagina to the point that you hymen(clitoris) tore? If so, you may have some bleeding. Not too much but enough to where if you wipe that area, you can see the discharge. Sometimes the clitoris can split on it's own if you are athletic but if it were done by sexual intercourse, most likely...no you are not a virgin anymore. You should be able to feel the difference considering you do masturbate.