almost two weeks ago i had sex for the first time. ill start off by saying we didnt use a condom and it hurt extremely bad. since then ive been bleeding , and i looked up that some girls get the period after sex so i wasnt too worried. now im only spotting but it hurts to pee and im uncomfortable all of the time. i dont have a gynecologist so i have no one to turn to. if someone thinks they know whats wrong it would really help alot but i mostly want to know how to get rid of my symptoms and feel normal again , thank you.