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please dont judge.i really need some input..
please dont make nasty comments about my situation...thank you..
ok..so i found out i was pregnant on august 25, and was completely pressured by everyone i know to get an abortion. my mother told me i had to move out regardless, my friends were saying things to me, and my bf did not want to have anything to do with the situation. and i know now that it seems like i made a mistake but at the time it was my only option it seemed.. i had an abortion on september 19, i was 7 weeks pregnant. its been a month today since my procedure, i have no signs of getting my period. my boyfriend (who im stupid to even still be with after what happend but..) and i have had sex several times since my procedure, we cant use latex condoms, and i was taking birth control for 2 weeks after my abortion but it made me very very ill so i stopped. so he pulled out every time just as he was about to ***. im really nervous now because i dont feel any signs that im going to get my period. and im feeling a pulling in my lower abdomen that i felt when i suspected i was pregnant in august, also i have been making more trips to the bathroom (not to pee) which i had also... im really scared.
any thoughts?
ok..so i found out i was pregnant on august 25, and was completely pressured by everyone i know to get an abortion. my mother told me i had to move out regardless, my friends were saying things to me, and my bf did not want to have anything to do with the situation. and i know now that it seems like i made a mistake but at the time it was my only option it seemed.. i had an abortion on september 19, i was 7 weeks pregnant. its been a month today since my procedure, i have no signs of getting my period. my boyfriend (who im stupid to even still be with after what happend but..) and i have had sex several times since my procedure, we cant use latex condoms, and i was taking birth control for 2 weeks after my abortion but it made me very very ill so i stopped. so he pulled out every time just as he was about to ***. im really nervous now because i dont feel any signs that im going to get my period. and im feeling a pulling in my lower abdomen that i felt when i suspected i was pregnant in august, also i have been making more trips to the bathroom (not to pee) which i had also... im really scared.
any thoughts?
i agree with marg55. see if this guy is really for u. ur 18 from what i see and u got a long list of guys coming ur way. enjoy ur life with ur girlfriends and school, shopping! a child is a huge responsibility. im sure u know this already but until ur really in teh situation u dont realize how much it is to what extent. if the birth control pill got u sick try a different one. i took yasmin and i gotfelt sick every day for a month but then i was ok to take it. your young so i suggest trying tri cyclin
Honey there is no shame in being human but, just because he pulls out before** doesn't mean that he pulled out fast enoungh and yes some of the sperm cells could have been left in. Take a pregnacy test to be sure do several. They don't cost much you can even get them at the dollar tree store for a dollar or some other store that way it is your business an no one elses. and you might want the bf to know to see if he is the right guy for you. It happens it's life. Just learn from your experiences.
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