Protected sex haunted me now

[haniffcade223]

Hello
I had protected sex 2 months ago with girl of unknown status,  it was brief less than 3 min . & I was sick ever since and I don't know what's wrong in my health . I ask this girl about her status & she was mad and even threatened to block me which made me suspicious. Anyway I got tested 2 weeks for 4th Gen negative and 30 days later 3rd generation alere negative.  My CBC blood work i did yesterday show high lymphocytes 42% , low platelets, crazy fever for 3 weeks continous I have been 5 different hospital,  one hospital diagnosed me malaria , I went 2 other hospital I tested negative for malaria rapid test , I was confused I just took malaria tablets then I was much better and fever subsides . I know I have low risk but I'm wondering foreign pathogens in my body and different hospitals fails to diagnose me properly. I have not seen single person in this group who reported negative at 3-4 weeks and results change later . Can I trust my result now I'm family man I'm scared

[CurfewX]

The risks for HIV have not changed since the last time you asked: https://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Frottage-sex-with-condom-and-UTI/show/3076309

You didn't have a risk for HIV.  I have no idea what is causing your medical issues, but it isn't HIV.

[AnxiousNoMore]

I would block you too, if I was that girl. You can't have hiv yet you kept pestering her with a crazy idea that you have hiv after protected sex.
It is sad that you are sick but keep working with your doctors.

[haniffcade223]

Thank you for the response,  yes your last assessment was correct, I tested negative after one year . But im trying to move on past this new encounter today I visited Dr who tested me hiv last month , he told me " since i tested negative and  i didn't know if this girl is infected & you use protection move on.  One last question everyone is talking to test after 3 month for conclusive result does that apply to those who have actual risk. Is 30 negative good assurance for me note that I'm not paranoid or

[CurfewX]

You didn't have ANY risk. You did not need to take an HIV test at all. Your test will be conclusive and negative whenever you take it because you cannot possibly have HIV.

[haniffcade223]

Hello
I do appreciate your your details during this hardtime for me. I extremely unwell today I went back to hospital to run some test including hiv rapid test after 2 month of exposure which came back negative. I also tested negative for malaria so I think it's Gerd which is making me this much sick.  Time to move on with my life

[AnxiousNoMore]

See a mental health therapist because it is abnormal to test for a disease you don't have. It is also abnormal to continue testing when you have a negative result.

Keep working with your doctor so HE can diagnose you, because you are wasting your time fixated on hiv, which is making you subconsciously try to find a way to diagnose hiv.

[haniffcade223]

Guys I don't want to waste Ur time & I need your input one last time , I'm still in pain for 4 months now with serious Illness which knocked me  off to bed that I got lay off from work , constant fever & muscles ache I tested positive for h pylori again. Should I do hiv follow up test , this long sickness worry me alot

[CurfewX]

Work with your doctor to find the non-HIV related cause of your medical issues. Being worried about HIV doesn't turn your NO-RISK event into a risk.

[AnxiousNoMore]

Yes, see a doctor. You don't have any medical training and are not logical so you are wasting your time.