37 weeks pregnant / percocet help!

[scoobyshaggy31]

I am currently 37 weeks pregnant and had been taking percocet before I found out. From month 1-4 of my pregnancy I didn't take any pills. Unfortunately, I relapsed and slowly started using from the middle of my 4th month to now (37 weeks). I have stopped a couple of times, but have had issues because of withdrawal fears ECT... I am so scared. I love my baby and have been lucky enough to have the growth and tests be all healthy up to this date. In the past 2 weeks, I have tapered myself down to taking one 30mg tablet a day (spread through 2-4 times meaning I broke the pill to make it less) from me taking anywhere from 2-3 30mg a day...I REALLY WANT TO STOP FOR GOOD. I was never prescribed the pills, and started taking them because a friend had given them to me, everyday I live in fear that I'll start up again and fear that my baby will be born addicted. But I am determined to keep clean from today until my due date (3 weeks) I am praying that I even go later than that because I don't know what to do. Does anyone have any kind words or advice for me?

[vicki595]

What kind of withdrawal symptoms did you have after you began to taper down? I meant to ask you that....

[vicki595]

Scooby-  I know you're nervous and you don't need that stress right now,either. That's why I think you should call tomorrow...this situation needs to be dealt with now.  There are a few things that can happen OR maybe not but you need to do something fast. I know you don't want to but you have to. I told you that you don't have a choice any more: The baby comes first...not your fear.

I'm very concerned that you could go into labor at any time. Then what???  What will you do??   They'll test the baby at the hospital and they will know what's been up. I totally
understand you honey, but I'm advocating for you AND that baby!!   Often times,a cold turkey withdrawal at this stage causes such stress for the baby that a woman goes into labor.  Do something before that happens.

Also,although the baby is human,it does not have the exact processes that we have. Fetal circulation is completely OPPOSITE our own!  This is one of the reason's drugs can be detected for a very long time in a  newborn. The fetus does NOT filter the drugs as we would think.

Sending me a PM is fine but I know I will say the same thing; perhaps with stronger words...I cannot stress enough the urgency of your situation.

It's all up to you now...so please do the right thing.    xo

[scoobyshaggy31]

vicki- I messaged you some more questions... And thanks jimm...I hope you're recovery is as smooth as possible & you can stay strong also. I don't want to pick them up again even after I have the baby- I don't want to ever go through this BS again... ugh I will keep you all updated on how things go...have an ob apt on weds of this week & will let you all know what happens, I'm so nervous and scared though :(

[sudie58]

you will be ok scooby, just listen to vicki. and take care, we re here for you and your baby!.

[jimmbosan]

Be very carful... Your baby can become addicted too (and not just you). The one and only way one can overcome Percoset addiction is to STOP taking Perc (i know what you are feeling, im w/d bad right now! I cant seem to type straight either! Been popping for almost 2 months... quit 55 hours ago and i feel, well like death). Eventually time will heal you, you just have to accept the fate that "if i take narcotics i will feel w/d symptoms eventually". Just bear the pain for a little bit, take days as they come and they will get better, and you baby will be even healthier. Stay strong!

[vicki595]

Hi Honey!!    

YES.  Tell your OB.  If you're going to make a mistake regarding this I think it should be on the side of caution,that's how I look at things. I'm going to nudge you just a little more so you WILL tell him.  Here's why:

If he is informed of the substance abuse(even though it's for pain only it's considered substance abuse because you didn't have an RX) he can control and be prepared for any "problems" that may arise at birth. Nothing will happen to you. He will council you and sign off on the "abuse". Meaning he will state that he was aware and supported you. This is generally what happens. He is not there to judge you...he's there to help and you need to let him.

A fetus does not have the capacity for anything like this. That's why pregnant women should NEVER STOP COLD TURKEY. The fetus feels everything and multiplied.  Don't do that.

I'm almost certain the baby will be born addicted. They need to know now about this. If he doesn't know, everyone will be caught unaware,and the baby will suffer in the long run while they all run around trying to figure out why the baby seems "off"( if that is the case).
You would have one very upset Doctor and who knows what else!!

You're a Mommy now and the right thing to do is always put your child first. It's a very natural thing and that's why you feel so badly right now..I understand.  I can almost guarantee you he'll be very appreciative of the fact you're telling him because this really puts his butt on the line if you don't.

Call for an appt in the morning. Tell the staff what it's about. Tell them you're scared. They'll help you!!  There have been many,many women in this situation. Most of them took pain meds for pain. The only difference is,you didn't have a prescription.  They can't kill you for that,I promise. Tell the truth here and stay with us...Keep us informed about the little one and I don't see any decision needing to be made here. There's no choice. You have to be honest tomorrow!!