my a**hole husband just asked me if I wanted a pill! OMG!

[Ashamedmama]

I'm so hurt.

[Bigdaddy1313]

Guys are idiots. I know this cause I am one of them:) You need to just blow those comments off and know you are doing this for yourself. Is it possible you could go somewhere to stay for a few days. I am thinking maybe he is scared to death that you are going to change. He may think he can have some type of control over you by using pills. Your are in a very delicate time and you shouldn't be in that environment. I am really sorry. Tell him I'm going to come over and kick his behind!!!! Just kidding unless you want me too:)

[Merri123]

I'm sorrytohesrthstbut happy you said No.

Remember he still takes them. He has no idea what you have done to quit and what it takes to stay that way. He thinks you can take one every once in awhile and that is fine now.

Or he is scared you quitting will mean other changes in your lives too that may make him nervous.

But basically he is clueless. Maybe seeing you stop and stay clean will make him eventually decide to stop or decrease himself.

Next time maybe remind him you talked about it and he is supposed to make sure you have no access to them. That this is very important to you and you need his continued support. It's not s phase

Keep it up. You are doing good. You will face a lot of temptations in life but it is how you handle that matters.

[Cricketk92]

Im so sorry....was hoping he would be supportive of your decision!!!  Im so glad that you didnt take it though!!!!   Hopefully you can help him to understand where you are at!  Please keep on doing the right thing and let us know how you are getting on!!!  Sending you hugs and prayers for strength!!!!

[dominosarah]

I am sorry this has happened,  Do you have access to those pills?  I hope not.  I have a feeling your husband is feeling insecure at this point.  I am in no way excusing his behavior,  I hope that you 2 can sit down and talk about this once the anger goes away.  Congrats on not taking it and coming here and posting about this.

[gnarly_1]

hi  well it is up to you to draw a hard line in the sand with him NO MORE PILLS EVER and dont offer them to me!!!!!!

[Ashamedmama]

He knows! I  can't believe he did this! I didn't take it! I'm just absolutely heart broken.

[nownlater]

Please no that you dont have to do this alone, you are strong and it takes a lot of  courage to stop. For every action there is reaction dont start.

[scaredmamaneedshelp]

Oh no hun, why? What happened? Doesn't he know that your quitting? Did you take it. We are here for you .