Here is a quick bio. My husband is BP, BPD, and an alcoholic.My husband was in the hospital for 6 months and had to have 5 surgeries due to necrotizing Pancreatitis brought on by his alcoholism. His surgeon has said if he drinks again it will kill him. He has now been home for one year and he was doing great. He was taking his meds, going to counseling. Now he is abusing his meds, drinking all day long, missing appointments and is cutting himself. Now due to a 'friend' he has learned to snort his Buspar to get high. I don't know how to help him. I feel guilty because I had to leave because it was affecting my depression and making me suicidal. I do not want to get a divorce, but he won't let anyone help him. How can I help him?