Hey everyone

[Mrs_onetime6801]

Hey I have a question. What do you do when you see someone that you love so much killing himself over lortabs. Maybe I dont understand how hard it is to quit but to see this person in pain and so moody. I dont understand how you can go through not taking them and through the withdrawels but then go right back and start taking the pills again. Has anyone else been throught this or know someone that is going through this? what do I do?
how can I help him?

[geegee34]

I was a addict 4 days clean i am watching my husband of 15 yrs poppill 12-15.I think i am only 34 and have a daughter what do i do? Answer be me be clean and pray  that all you can do i pour my heart out to him cried scream beg. Nothing. when his out i get yelled at scream at you name it life is hell well today i told him i am clean and i love you but i will stand up to you and it will go down one way or the other.I clean you'll be the one detox in jail and you aren;t going to like that.hate to say you can not change them we where10yrsmarried cleaned.Now it's his ball people have to know you can stand on your own if he changes be there if not pray a pray every night. Sometime you have to have just god

[addictedme]

nar anon and narc anon are programs for familys and loved ones of addicts.

[feohmoon]

It is difficult, if not impossible, to understand an opiate addiction.  I never imagined that I would become dependant on something as I enjoyed recreational drug use sporatically over many years without developing an addiction.  
Opiates are debilitating, the withdrawals are far more painful than any broken bone, pnuemonia, flu, childbirth, etc.  The best way to understand is to read many posts, journals, etc.  
Is this person ready to quit?  Have they admitted a problem?
Best of luck yo you.  I realize it must be hard to see someone you love go down this path, but it is also hard to be the one on that path.  Offer your love and support.  
We will keep you in our prayers.