That may sound like an odd question, but I found a small piece of paper folded up on the kitchen floor. It sitting by my boyfriend's jacket which was hanging on the back of a chair. I picked up the folded piece of paper and opened it. Inside was some grayish white powder. When I showed it to my boyfriend he told me it was aspirin. I told him that it looked suspicious, and that we have plenty of aspirin up stairs in the bathroom. He laughed and said, naw it's aspirin. My radar instantly went up. I didn't argue with him about it because I felt like it wasn't going to get me truthful answers. Sometimes he does have mood swings, but blames it on PTSD because he is a war veteran. I notice that he'll act moody sometimes, then leave to go to a neighbor's house. When he comes back home, he'll run upstairs to bedroom, and then I hear him opening one the dresser drawers. I always thought his behavior was very strange, so one day when he wasn't home I went through his dresser draw. I found many pieces of small folded up papers in back. One of them again had that strange looking powder in it. Every weekend he has to go "hang out" at a friend's house. I never go with him because these friends like to drink, smoke (marijuana), and sit around talking about who slept with who. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or sleep around. I never have, and that's why I don't socialize with his "friends". I recently told my boyfriend that he acts like a whole different person sometimes especially when he comes back from hanging with his friends. I also told him that he acts like he's on something sometimes. He also has to tell me a different story everyday about how some woman in the store, at the train station, at the library etc. was giving him the eye, told him how good he looked, or tried to inappropriately touch him. I'm tired of his lying and his hyper sexual stories. I hear them everyday. He also joined a program that supposed to be helping him with his drinking. Just this past week I found two empty bottles of methadone recently prescribed to him in the back of a kitchen cabinet. I don't know how or if I should confront him about it because I feel he'll just lie to me about. He wants us to get married. He even bought me a ring last month and wants me to wear. I keep it the ring box and carry it around with me because I'm not sure if I want to marry him. His lying, and having to be gone for hours at time sometimes has me feeling a lot of untrust towards him. I love him and wonder if I can ever really trust him again.