Hi James. Do whatever you need to do to keep that baby safe. If she gives birth, and they test the baby and see your gf is using, CPS will get involved. She will get her kids taken away if she's not clean or lies about using. Tell the dr. and ask his input. You have EVERY right to keep YOUR baby healthy and safe.
u need to tell her she goes to a rehab or u r going to get cps involved!!! unfortunately u have to put the life of ur child first and her second!!
I just sent you a private message.
I would call the Doctir office again. They usually have an option to leave a message for or speak to a nurse. Usually you get to leave a message. Explain what is going on. Say you are the Father and concerned. You can give info, they just can't give you info. However, since this will affect the baby, it may allow them to talk to you. Leave your name & phone number.
And keep involved. Let everyone know who you are. If your girl is born addicted you want to be there to take the baby. They may make you jump through hoops but you are the father.
Now your GF could get mad and try to cut you out totally. Break up, not let you know when born eat not say you are Dad. Be prepared to maybe have to establish your paternity rights and go to court. But if CPS takes the baby you have to contact them fast!!!
You are doing the right thing. I praying your girl is ok.