Hun. U have to do what's right for u. Remember u may not want to use now. But if ever u do and are with him the cycle will start again.
Be good to yourself whatever the out come.
Stay strong.
Hugs
Zoe
Thank u guys...he knows my bottom line and if he isn't done then we are done....his using is not tempting me thou its weird it makes me sick and ready for someone new in the future that will respect me and my new way of life
Amber I think it would be extremely difficult to overcome an addiction when your boyfriend is still using and you two are regularly seeing each other. You said it yourself. And u also know from experience exactly what he's going through now...thinking and actually believing he can stop whenever he wants. U obviously need to be concerned about your sobriety first. Sorry you're having to go through this...
O Amber. You go ahead and vent sweetheart. I was with my ex for almost 7 years. My doc was prescribed and his was weed. We fought all the time because I was an addict yet he wasn't he just had to smoke 12 blunts a day because that's who he was. Then we lost our baby and he was taking my pills plus smoking. I knew we both had problems but in his eyes only I did. It took me a long time to get the strength to leave but eventually I did it. I know for a fact I would not be 2 weeks clean if I didn't leave. You must do what is right for you and when it is right for you. I won't lie to you and say that I'm happy all the time because its been 6 months since I left him and I miss him like crazy. I hate sleeping alone but I had to do this for me. You are going to make it honey you are a strong woman. I am always here if you need to talk.