fouth step

[davidr714]

hi im on my forth step and that some stuff on my sex inventory will horrify my sponsor i mean i done some really deranged stuff nothing  to illegal at least I don’t think so. any way do I need to mention things like fetishes . i know don’t want to fess up to some of the sick things i done, their really deplorable the things that I done. Or porn and all subcatogies of said porn. I just don’t want to have my sponsor think I sick pervert.
David R

[davidr714]

thanks for the input  and its amazing i am actually enjoying life.
david R

[wildwoodone]

I agree with dominosarah.  You don't have to go into great detail, just generalize.  Although sponsors should be fully supportive and nonjudgemental there is no need to test that.  Good luck with your steps!!

[dominosarah]

I dont think you need to give your sponsor all the details of your sexual experiences.  I wouldnt get into the real personal things as that is your business.  Keep it general.  Glad to see you are doing your steps......I am proud of you and am glad to read you are still sober.....sara