Few months ago, when my husband became super jealous, accusing me of going out with other men, I thought he was just into male menopause or just insecure. A friend mentioned he(hubby)tried shabu few months ago.Now the paranoia is terrible!He became very angry, talked nonstop about nonsense stuff, gives weird sermons to the kids about not fooling around(he believes that I am cheap, date other rich men etc etc but that he still accepts me) When confronting him he denied that he is on shabu. Another friend mentioned it's been ongoing for years! My problem now is - what should i do?how soon do we need to put him into rehab? Is it getting to be any worse than this? Before this he was a very responsible, dependable person (more so than me). Now he has become withdrawn and looks so depressed, keeping to himself and just smoking,listening to music. Couldhe be using downers as well? Is shabu REALLY that addictive? I know my husband is a very disciplined person. Help!