lies that come with drugs!!!!

[sharleen11]

why do i think he is all ways lieing. everything he dids i think he is lieing he told me he was working away for 2days a few weekends ago. so i phoned his boss and asked she must think i am mad but hay ho. he went mad at me when he got back and said i was makeing smoke keep doing his head in all the time. i am testing him over the weekend i hope he is clean if he aint not sure yet what i will do

[sharleen11]

thank you i have never done the drugs he is doing so i dont know what it is doing to him and thats why i nug at him so much i feel sick some times just thinking about it x

[akitagurl12]

addicts have to lie to try to cope with having to feed an addiction that has control over their entire body mind and life.  As hard as it is, try not to take it personally.  It doesn't mean he doesn't love or care about you, but it does mean that he really can't express it and right now drugs are his number one priority.
  At the same time, it isn't fair to you & it is totally impossible to have a happy relationship with someone who is constantly lying and causing you to be on edge all the time.  I was in a similar situation and had to finally walk away from the relationship all together.  In my case, the person didn't want to get sober, and eventually, my love turned into me totally enabling him and making it easier for him to continue to live his crazy lifestyle.  It is really hard, so whatever you decide to do, please seek out support for yourself.

[mamaof4410]

Lying and addiction go hand in hand thats why. But try not to grill him so much. If he wants to use hes going to do it wether you nag at  him or not. If hes not doing and youre consatntly nagging at him its going to make him want to do it. Trust is hard to gain back and he doesnt understand that right now. He will one day.
And if he tests positive over the weekend have a plan of action as to what youre going to do. And stick to it. If you decide to leave then leave. Do not let him talk you out of it. Because he will see that youre not serious about it. Best of luck to you