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hello please help. I have a daughter who is 4 months old.. last year 2014 i had intercourse with the first guy on july 7,2014 after me and my boy friend broke up. a week later my period came on july 14,2014 then me and my boyfriend got back to together and had sex almost everyday after my period went off like july 21,27,aug 3rd all after my period . my daughter was born on april 13 2015 at 39 weeks. how will i know if i got pregnate on july 7th or after my period with my boyfriend. I want to take a DNA test however i want to have a clue before taking one so that i want look bad please help.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Which is why you do this with your lawyer's assistance. He gets served a summons, you go to a certified lab not do some at-home test, his failure to appear in response to the summons is subject to a contempt-of-court order. The guy is legally responsible for his child.
Be sure your lawyer knows that your guy has told you he will send a stand-in for the DNA test. You being there to positively identify him at the lab is important. Your lawyer will know how to handle the paperwork so Mr. Shirker shows up or has consequences.
Be sure your lawyer knows that your guy has told you he will send a stand-in for the DNA test. You being there to positively identify him at the lab is important. Your lawyer will know how to handle the paperwork so Mr. Shirker shows up or has consequences.
you have been the most helpful person i have ever talked to . i felt like everyone else was like whatever. and i dont even know you. thank for buliding my confidence back. god bless you.
and me and my boyfriend dont talk anymore which is ok i have excepted it. he told me if i put him on child support he will have someone else to take the dna test for him so that it want come back as his .
and me and my boyfriend dont talk anymore which is ok i have excepted it. he told me if i put him on child support he will have someone else to take the dna test for him so that it want come back as his .
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General anxiety, not logic, usually prompts the question "What if the (doctor, ultrasound, nurse, medical textbook, DNA test) is WRONG?!?!?!"
I think you should trust the dates and the doctor. If that had not been your period, your child would not have measured correctly all along the way and would not have been born when she was.
Call the family courts in your area of jurisdiction and get a list from the clerk of what labs are approved by the courts to determine paternity. Go with the guy so you see him give his sample. In other words, do things properly. All will be well.
I think you should trust the dates and the doctor. If that had not been your period, your child would not have measured correctly all along the way and would not have been born when she was.
Call the family courts in your area of jurisdiction and get a list from the clerk of what labs are approved by the courts to determine paternity. Go with the guy so you see him give his sample. In other words, do things properly. All will be well.
yes, its for child support reason. i spoken to my OB doc today and she said the dates where correct and if i was off they would have told me.i think its j just all in my head. i be think what if that wasnt my period. how would i know if it wasnt.?
COMMUNITY LEADER
Well, when you get the test done, you will have a response to give to every rude person who opens their yap and says such an impolite thing.
If you are testing for child-support reasons, go to a lab certified by the family courts in your area for determining paternity. Drugstore tests don't do for that purpose.
Take care.
If you are testing for child-support reasons, go to a lab certified by the family courts in your area for determining paternity. Drugstore tests don't do for that purpose.
Take care.
ok. i think im so worried about looks more then anything bc she doesnt look nothing like my boyfriend, everyone say she look just like me so that what gets me. the date make me feel more comfortable but the looks make me back out everytime when some say she look nothing like my boyfriend.
COMMUNITY LEADER
The first guy was too early to match up to you being at 39 weeks GA on April 13. You also had a period after him and before the next guy. Go in and get your DNA test with your head held high.
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