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Who is most likely my babys dad?

Hi. I just need a little help or advice. I will be getting a DNA test in the future but I need some insight.
My last period was oct 3 and according to calenders I would have ovulated oct 17. My boyfriend and I have had sex every single night from october - november 15. But on october 25 at 8 p.m. i was raped by another man. I took a plan b 20 hours after the incident. Please I dont need anyone judging me I did not want this to happen at all. I had sore boobs november 1-11. and I took a test on the 11 and it was positive. How likely is it that its my boyfriends baby?
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Hi, laylay, can you post your question as its own post?  
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HI EVERYONE SORRY FOR THE PROBLEM BUT I NEED HELP I HAD SEX wITH gUY #1 oN THE 18TH OF JAN aND hE INJECTED IN ME A FEW DAYS laTER i hAD SEX wITH gUY #2 oN JAN THE 23 AND HE INJECTED IN ME AND I IM PREGNANT SO I NEED HELP OR SO COMMENTS WHO BABY IT COULD BE GUY 1 OR 2 I REALLY HOPE ITS GUY #2 pLEASEE HELP AND DONT JUDGE
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134578 tn?1693250592
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Nobody will judge you, you were the victim of a crime.  I hope you have reported the attack to the police, and also that you have been tested for STDs.

Have you had an ultrasound?  Going by just a calendar alone, the odds are high that the baby is from your boyfriend.  A lot depends on the length of your menstrual cycle (from day 1 of bleeding of one period to day 1 of bleeding of the next period). Unless your cycles are 35 days or longer from one period to the next, or are extremely irregular, your boyfriend would be the father.

Get an ultrasound as soon as you can, like, next week, if you have not gotten one yet.  Tell the doctor that you would like your estimated due date to be figured based on only the baby's size and developmental markers, not on when your last period began.  Explain that this is because you were raped and want to rule out a certain time period for conception.  Take the estimated due date they give you home and use a conception calculator or simply count back 266 days on a calendar.  That will be the estimated conception date.  Since you are already in your 11th week, your ultrasound at this point is going to have a margin for error (when used to try to determine a conception date) of +/- 7 days.  But if it points to the 17th or earlier, it will help put your worries to rest.  
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